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Ass Relax Desensitizing Lubricant by XR Brands
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Effortlessly heighten anal intimacy with this lidocaine-infused lubricant that numbs without eliminating sensation. The clear 4.25oz formula reduces initial discomfort so you can focus on building arousal gradually, making anal exploration accessible for nervous beginners and seasoned enthusiasts seeking comfort during deeper penetration.
Key Features:
Contains 2% lidocaine for effective anal desensitization reducing discomfort during penetration while maintaining pleasurable sensations for both beginners and experienced users seeking comfortable anal play.
Smooth silky texture provides long lasting lubrication that reduces friction during anal penetration creating effortless gliding motion for extended intimate sessions without irritation or discomfort.
Clear formula leaves no visible residue or stains on skin or bedding maintaining discretion while delivering consistent numbing effects throughout anal stimulation and penetration activities.
4.25 oz bottle offers ample lubricant for multiple anal play sessions featuring easy squeeze design for controlled application during spontaneous intimate encounters or planned sexual activities.
Gentle cooling sensation followed by subtle numbness prepares the anus for comfortable penetration allowing relaxed exploration of anal stimulation without overwhelming desensitization effects.
Vendor:
XR Brands
SKU:
LUBE-120-NOATTRIBUTES-SHOP-NONE-45578
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Product type:
Anal Lubes
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Ass Relax is a desensitizing anal lubricant with 2% lidocaine that reduces initial discomfort while preserving sensation of pressure and fullness. Ideal for anal beginners, those returning after uncomfortable past experiences, and experienced users wanting relaxed penetration with larger partners or sex toys.
Why choose the Ass Relax Desensitizing Lubricant by XR
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📦 Discreet plain-wrapped delivery • 💳 Private billing • ↩️ Easy size-swap returns |
What it does
Once applied, lidocaine begins working within 3–5 minutes, creating a gentle cooling sensation followed by partial numbness around your anal opening. You'll still feel pressure and fullness—the sensations that matter most—but that initial sharp discomfort fades away. Your anal muscles naturally relax as your nervous system stops sending panic signals, allowing deeper penetration without the usual defensive clenching response.
Silky texture provides excellent glide that lasts throughout your session. Unlike water-based lubes that dry out quickly, this formula maintains its slickness for extended play without building up sticky residue. If you're exploring Pulsing Prostate Toys, this lubricant works well alongside those for comfortable, relaxed sessions. Reapply as needed, but avoid excessive amounts that could lead to complete numbness.
Specifications
- Volume: 4.25 fl oz (126 ml)
- Active ingredient: 2% lidocaine hydrochloride
- Formula: Clear, non-staining
- Condom compatibility: Latex and polyisoprene
- Bottle design: Easy-squeeze with flip-top cap
Choosing and using it
Start with a dime-sized amount applied directly to your anal opening. Massage it in gently using circular motions, then wait 5 minutes before penetration to let the lidocaine take full effect. Compatible with latex and polyisoprene condoms, this lube suits both solo play and partnered sessions. Cockringshop specialises in products for men and couples, so pair this with your chosen sex toy or partner size. Reapply during longer sessions as needed, but remember the numbing effect means you might not immediately notice if something's uncomfortable—so communicate regularly and go slowly.
How to use it
Apply a small amount directly to your anal opening and massage it in with gentle circular motions. You don't need much—start conservatively and add more only if needed. Wait 5 minutes before beginning penetration. During this time, you'll notice the tight, defensive feeling around your anus starts to fade as the lidocaine takes effect.
Communicate with your partner throughout the process. Because the numbing effect reduces sensitivity, you might not immediately feel if something's wrong, so check in regularly and go slow. Reapply during longer sessions to maintain glide, but avoid using excessive amounts that could lead to complete numbness. After play, wash the area thoroughly with warm water and mild soap.
Feature breakdown
| Feature | Specification | Benefit | Experience |
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| 2% Lidocaine | Medical-grade anesthetic | Reduces entry discomfort | Relaxed, confident penetration |
| Clear Formula | Non-staining consistency | Maintains visual appeal | Clean, discreet application |
| Silky Texture | Long-lasting lubrication | Smooth gliding action | Consistent comfort throughout |
| 4.25 oz Bottle | Generous quantity | Multiple session coverage | Cost-effective convenience |
Who it suits
This lubricant is perfect for anal beginners who tense up at the thought of penetration. It removes the mental barrier of anticipated pain, giving you confidence to relax and explore. Anyone who's avoided anal because of previous uncomfortable experiences will appreciate the reassurance this provides. It's equally valuable for experienced users wanting to accommodate larger sex toys or partners without the usual warm-up ritual.
Avoid this product if you're allergic to lidocaine or similar anesthetics. It's also not for you if you prefer feeling every sensation during play—this deliberately reduces sensitivity to prioritise comfort over intensity. The numbing effect means reduced feedback, so if maximum sensation is your goal, a standard lubricant may suit you better.
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How it compares
Desensitizing anal lubes like this one work by reducing sensation around your anal opening, making entry more comfortable and relaxed. Standard anal lubes provide glide and lubrication but don't numb initial discomfort, so you feel everything as you stretch. If you want to combine penetration comfort with prostate stimulation, Prostate Massage Sex Toys work well alongside this lubricant for comprehensive internal play. Choose a desensitizing formula if entry anxiety is your main concern; choose standard lube if you want full sensation and have worked through discomfort already.
| Please read — safety first. Put the ring on before you are fully erect and use plenty of water-based lubricant so it slides on without pinching. Keep wear time short — no more than 20 minutes while you are getting used to it, and never fall asleep wearing one. Take it off straight away if you feel numbness, coldness, a change in colour, or any pain, as these mean blood flow has been cut off too far. Never share between partners without cleaning the item first or using a fresh condom. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice, and does not take your personal circumstances into account. Stop use and speak with a qualified medical professional if you have a relevant health condition, take medication for erectile function or blood pressure, or notice pain, numbness, or discolouration that does not settle. |
What you can use it with
This lubricant pairs well with larger anal toys and insertions where gradual accommodation is important. The numbing effect helps your body relax during insertion of larger plugs or sex toys, making the stretching process more comfortable. Couples Intimacy Kits that include anal components work beautifully with this formula, allowing both partners to explore together with confidence and comfort. The desensitizing effect takes the edge off initial penetration anxiety, making partnered exploration more relaxed and enjoyable.
More from XR Brands
XR Brands produces specialty intimate products focused on accessibility and comfort. Browse the full Xr Brands range to find other lubes, sex toys, and accessories designed with your comfort and confidence in mind.
Read more before you buy
New to anal play or looking to improve your technique? The Adultsmart blog has practical guidance. Check out 9 Anal Sex Tips for expert advice on preparation, communication, and safety.
Why buy the Ass Relax Desensitizing Lubricant by XR Brands
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Shipping Information & Policy
Cockringshop.com.au ships with Australia Post. We ship from Sydney.
All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 1-6 business days after shipping, but may subject to any postage carrier related delays beyond our control.
Free standard shipping on orders shipped within Australia above $200. For orders below $200 standard shipping within Australia is $12.95 and will be added at checkout.
Orders addressed to P.O box, G.P.O box or Parcel Collect will be handled by Australia Post. Extra time should be allocated for these orders.
Shipping Transit Times (Including Free Shipping)
Shipping time refers to the estimated time that it will take to deliver your order after it’s ready to ship (Please note this does not include time to process your order). Shipping time does not commence after your order is put through but begins the moment your order has been processed and is ready to dispatch via the our freight carrier..
1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)
All in stock orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days for orders received before 12pm. Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next business day.
Orders are typically received 1-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the nearest depot location.
2. Rural Areas (within Australia)
All orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days before 12pm.
Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next Business day.
Packages below 2kg are usually received 3-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the local Australia Post depot.
International Shipping
The price for international shipping is AU$12.95 for orders equal to or below 0.399kg (399grams), and AU$22.95 for orders with a total weight equal to or above 0.4kg (400 grams).
All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.
Please note in regards to all orders
– These expected delivery dates/times are based on carrier shipping practices, your destination, and the items in your order.
– Expected delivery dates are estimates. Orders can be delayed due to fraud verification or the time of the order being placed. Items that are not regularly stocked cannot be held to the expected delivery dates.
– Orders may be delivered in separate shipments.
– The order cut off times are based on normal Business Hours and exclude weekends and Holidays: Monday – Friday 12 pm
– When your order ships you will receive an email from us with a link to track your order. If you receive your tracking number before 6 pm (AEST) it may not be updated on the Carrier’s website until that evening.
Due to large amounts of online credit card fraud, all orders are subject to approval by our payment verification department. We will notify you by phone or email should your order be delayed.
Returns Policy
We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.
Returns and exchanges are only available for faulty items, goods not as described, or in some instances, for incorrect sizing.
Due to health and safety regulations, cockringshop.com.au cannot resell any returned or exchanged products.
This policy is in place to prioritise your well-being and ensure that you receive the highest standard of hygiene and quality in all products.
To be eligible for a refund, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging.
You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase. We do not issue refunds for change of mind or incorrect choice.
Under Australian Consumer Law, we are not obliged to accept returns for “incorrect choice” or “change of mind” so please choose your products carefully.
Any freight and insurance costs to return the item to us are at your expense. This includes the liability for any lost freight – send via registered post.
If your return request is accepted, we will provide you with all instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.
Damages and issues
Please inspect your order upon reception and contact us immediately if the item is defective, damaged or if you receive the wrong item, so that we can evaluate the issue and make it right.
Exceptions / non-returnable items
We do not accept returns for any products that have change of mind, damaged products, or for products that have been used or do not have their original packaging.
Please get in touch if you have questions or concerns about your specific item.
Unfortunately, we cannot accept returns on sale items or gift cards.
Refunds
We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved or not. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method within 7 business days.
Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process and post the refund
Frequently Asked Questions
How does the Ass Relax Desensitizing Lubricant reduce discomfort during anal penetration?
The 2% lidocaine concentration provides targeted numbing effects to anal tissues reducing sensitivity while preserving pleasurable sensations. This carefully calibrated formula allows comfortable penetration without complete desensitization.
What makes the Ass Relax Desensitizing Lubricant effective for extended anal play sessions?
Smooth silky texture delivers long lasting lubrication that maintains consistency throughout intimate encounters. The formula reduces friction during repeated penetration while the lidocaine provides sustained comfort for prolonged sessions.
Why is the Ass Relax Desensitizing Lubricant suitable for anal play beginners?
Gentle numbing action helps newcomers relax and overcome initial anxiety about anal penetration. The balanced formula provides reassuring comfort while allowing users to experience pleasurable sensations during their exploration.
When should the Ass Relax Desensitizing Lubricant be applied before anal stimulation begins?
Apply several minutes before penetration to allow lidocaine absorption and optimal numbing effects. The cooling sensation indicates readiness preparing anal tissues for comfortable exploration and reducing initial penetration discomfort.
Does the Ass Relax Desensitizing Lubricant work effectively for both partners during anal intercourse?
Increased receiver comfort translates to enhanced experiences for both partners during anal intercourse. Reduced tension and anxiety create more relaxed enjoyable encounters that benefit all participants in intimate activities.
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