Come Closer Vibrating Strap-On with Remote by Evolved

A harness-mounted vibrating strap-on with dual motors and remote control, designed for couples or solo use. Combines deep internal stimulation with external grinding for hands-free penetrative sex that targets the G-spot and clitoris simultaneously.

What it does

Two independent motors work in tandem to create sensations that feel intentional rather than random. A 9.5-centimetre shaft buries itself inside while its motor performs ten distinct come-hither patterns—that beckoning motion that makes your internal walls tighten and grip. Simultaneously, a grinding pad sits flat against your vulva, concentrating pressure directly on your clitoris with every thrust. Arousal builds differently with dual-point input because you're receiving deep pulling sensation and surface stimulation at once, layering intensity that typical single-motor vibrators cannot match.

Your body responds instinctively to this dual approach: breathing shifts, muscles tense, and the orgasm that builds is full-body—the kind where your legs shake and your back arches because everything's being targeted at once. if you're thrusting forward to control depth or lying back while your partner does the work, the harness keeps the shaft and grinding pad exactly where you've positioned them. Browse Pornhub Sextoys for other options if you prefer a different style of dual stimulation.

Specifications

• Insertable depth: 9.5 centimetres
• Shaft diameter: 3.3 centimetres
• Material: Medical-grade silicone, latex-free and phthalate-free
• Vibration speeds: 10 independent speeds on dual motors
• Come-hither patterns: 10 separate patterns
• Remote range: Up to 9.8 metres
• Harness waist adjustment: 63.5 to 137.2 centimetres
• Battery: Rechargeable via USB (cable included)
• Water rating: IPX6 waterproof for shower use

Fit and sizing

Measure your waist where the harness will sit—usually around your hips or lower abdomen, depending on comfort preference. This strap-on adjusts to fit anyone from 63.5 to 137.2 centimetres, so sizing is rarely an issue. What matters more is how snug the harness feels against your body: tight enough that the shaft and grinding pad stay in place during movement, but not so tight that it cuts off circulation or feels restrictive. Cockringshop specialises in products for men and couples, and our team can help you work out the right fit if you're unsure. Comfort over ego always wins—if the harness is uncomfortable, you won't want to use it.

How to use it

Slide into the harness first and adjust it so it sits snug against your body with the shaft pointing downward and the grinding pad centred over your clitoris. Apply water-based lubricant generously to both the shaft and your entrance—the harness holds everything in place, but lubrication makes insertion smoother and grinding more pleasurable. Once positioned, the sex toy stays exactly where you've placed it, so you can rock your hips forward to control depth and pressure, or lie back and let your partner take the lead entirely.

Start with lower vibration speeds while you're warming up, then use the remote to shift the come-hither patterns once you're aroused and your body's responding with wetness and sensitivity. Many people find switching between grinding pulses and the shaft's come-hither motion creates waves of building intensity that push toward orgasm faster than single-point stimulation. When you feel yourself getting close—that moment where your muscles tense and breathing catches—ramping up to stronger patterns often tips you over into cumming hard. Rinse with warm water and mild soap after use.

Feature breakdown

Who it suits

This strap-on works best for anyone with a vulva who wants penetration paired with external clitoral stimulation, especially those who struggle reaching orgasm from penetration alone. Couples who want to focus on each other during sex rather than managing a sex toy will appreciate the hands-free design and remote control. Solo users who enjoy grinding and internal sensation simultaneously will also find it rewarding. It's particularly good for people who respond to the come-hither motion—that beckoning sensation—because the patterns are a core feature, not an afterthought.

Skip this if you prefer a non-penetrative strap-on, or if you're looking for a sex toy that prioritises external stimulation only. If grinding motion makes you uncomfortable, or if you prefer a simpler single-motor design, explore other styles instead. Anyone sensitive to silicone should patch-test first, though medical-grade silicone is generally well tolerated.

How it compares

Non-vibrating strap-ons rely on movement and friction alone—you control all the sensation through your own thrusting or grinding. Vibrating strap-ons add motor-driven stimulation on top of that, so sensation continues even when you're still. This model stands out because it combines two motors working independently: one for internal come-hither patterns and one for external grinding. Explore Adam Eve Sextoys for alternative vibrating and non-vibrating options if you want to compare styles. Choose vibration if you want hands-off intensity; choose non-vibrating if you prefer full control through movement alone.

What you can use it with

Pair this strap-on with Couples Intimacy Kits that include complementary sex toys or accessories designed for partnered play. A cock ring worn by your partner can intensify their sensation during penetrative sex, while vibrating toys designed for partner stimulation can add extra sensation to your own body during use. These kits work well together during coupled sessions because they layer multiple points of stimulation across both partners at once, building intensity and connection.

More from Evolved

Evolved designs vibrating toys and strap-ons across a range of styles and power levels. Browse Evolved to explore other options if you're interested in different harness designs, motor configurations, or remote-controlled features from the same brand.

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