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California Exotics First Time Softee Lover Beginner Vibrator - Mini & Slim Vibrators
California Exotics First Time Softee Lover Beginner Vibrator - Mini & Slim Vibrators
California Exotics First Time Softee Lover Beginner Vibrator - Mini & Slim Vibrators

California Exotics First Time Softee Lover Beginner Vibrator

$14.99
$14.99

First Time Softee Lover brings gentle vibrations through a removable TPE sleeve that warms to your body temperature. This beginner-friendly vibrator from California Exotics features multiple speeds and comfortable 5-inch sizing for confident exploration and satisfying orgasms.

Key Features:

Designed for first time users with gentle 5 inch length and 1.25 inch width to provide comfortable vaginal or clitoral stimulation without overwhelming beginners exploring masturbation.

Removable TPE sleeve offers two distinct textures for varied sensations during arousal while the ABS plastic core ensures reliable vibration delivery for consistent orgasmic stimulation.

Multiple vibration speeds allow customizable clitoral and vaginal stimulation intensity helping users discover preferred arousal levels and build confidence during intimate exploration and masturbation sessions.

Whisper quiet motor delivers discreet vibrations for private masturbation while compact size enables travel convenience and easy storage between intimate self pleasure sessions and exploration.

Body safe medical grade materials provide phthalate free vaginal and clitoral contact during penetration and external stimulation ensuring safe intimate exploration for sensitive genital areas.

SKU: VB-693-COLORS-PINK-32964
Availability: Out Of Stock
Product type: Mini & Slim Vibrators
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Colour: Pink

First Time Softee Lover creates gentle vibrations through a velvety TPE sleeve that slides off to reveal a firm ABS plastic core underneath. This dual-texture approach gives newcomers two distinct sensations to explore while the compact 5-inch length and 1.25-inch width provide comfortable sizing that won't overwhelm sensitive areas during your first sessions.

What It Does

The soft TPE sleeve caresses your clit and pussy lips with warm silky contact that heats up from your body temperature. Multiple vibration speeds travel through the flexible material to create pulses of pleasure that build gradually across your most sensitive spots. Unlike harder vibrators that can feel jarring against delicate tissue, this thoughtful design cushions the motor's power while still providing satisfying contact that gets your pussy wet and ready for deeper exploration.

Arousal develops naturally as the gentle vibrations awaken nerve endings throughout your vulva and clit. The warming sleeve makes each touch feel more intimate while the variable speeds let you control exactly how much sensation reaches your most responsive areas. When you're ready to cum, the consistent motor provides steady contact that helps your orgasm build and peak without overwhelming your sensitive pussy with too much power too quickly.

Technical Specs

  • 5-inch total length with 1.25-inch diameter for comfortable insertion
  • Medical-grade TPE sleeve over sturdy ABS plastic core
  • Operates on 2 AAA batteries with efficient motor design
  • Multiple vibration speeds with simple control interface
  • Waterproof construction allows thorough cleaning and bath play

How To Use It

Start by inserting fresh AAA batteries and testing the vibration levels to find your comfort zone. Apply water-based lube to the sleeve and position it against your clit, letting the soft material warm up against your skin for a few moments. Begin with the lowest speed setting and focus on gentle circular motions around your clit and pussy lips until you feel your body responding.

Gradually increase the vibration strength as your arousal grows, paying attention to which areas respond best to the contact. Try removing the sleeve partway through to compare the firmer plastic sensation against your now-sensitive clit. The contrast between textures often triggers stronger responses and helps push you over the edge to a satisfying climax that leaves your pussy pulsing.

Who It Suits

Newcomers to sex toys will appreciate the non-intimidating size and gentle materials that make exploration feel safe rather than overwhelming. Women who find traditional vibrators too harsh or numbing benefit from the cushioned sensation that still provides enough power to reach orgasm. The simple controls work well if you prefer focusing on pleasure rather than figuring out complex settings, while the quiet motor keeps sessions private in shared living situations.

Who Makes It?

  • California Exotics specializes in beginner-friendly adult toys that prioritize comfort and accessibility
  • Visit the California Exotics brand page →

Feature Breakdown

Feature Specification Sexual Benefit User Experience
Removable TPE Sleeve Velvety soft material that warms to body temperature Cushions vibrations for gentle clit contact Feels intimate and skin-like during use
Multiple Speed Motor Variable intensity with whisper-quiet operation Builds arousal progressively toward climax Lets you customize sensation levels
Compact 5-inch Size 1.25-inch diameter with smooth tapered tip Reaches sensitive spots without overwhelming Comfortable for extended play sessions
ABS Plastic Core Firm medical-grade material underneath sleeve Offers targeted pressure when sleeve removed Provides two distinct texture options

Where It Fits in Our Range

Water Based Lubricant

Pair this vibrator with quality water-based lube to enhance the soft sleeve's gliding action against your skin. The TPE material works perfectly with water-based formulas that won't break down the sleeve while keeping everything slippery and comfortable during longer sessions.

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Sex Lubricants

Adding lube makes the warming sleeve feel even more realistic and helps the vibrations transmit more effectively to your sensitive areas. Choose from our range of sex lubricants to find flavors or warming formulas that complement the toy's gentle approach to pleasure.

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Expert Review from Our In-House Tester

I was curious about the dual-texture design when I first unboxed the First Time Softee Lover, wondering if the removable sleeve would feel gimmicky or actually add value. The TPE material felt surprisingly realistic right away, warming quickly in my hands before I even turned on the vibrations. The 5-inch length felt substantial without being intimidating, and the 1.25-inch width provided good coverage without overwhelming my clit. Starting with the sleeve on, I could feel the motor's steady vibrations cushioned through the soft material, creating gentle waves that built my arousal gradually. Halfway through, I slipped off the sleeve to try the firm plastic core directly against my now-sensitive clit. The contrast was incredible – the harder surface concentrated the vibrations into sharper pulses that had me gripping the sheets. The simple speed controls let me ramp up the power just as my orgasm started building, and the consistent motor kept the perfect rhythm that pushed me over the edge. My pussy was still pulsing minutes afterward, and I found myself planning which texture to start with next time.

Reasons to Buy

  • Dual textures — soft sleeve and firm core provide completely different sensations in one toy
  • Beginner sizing — comfortable 5-inch length builds confidence without overwhelming
  • Variable speeds — adjustable power lets you control arousal buildup
  • Body-safe materials — medical-grade TPE and ABS plastic ensure safe intimate contact
  • Whisper-quiet motor — discreet operation keeps sessions private

Why Buy From Cock Ring Shop

  • Genuine California Exotics products with full manufacturer warranty
  • Expert guidance on selecting products from our Water Based Lubricant collection
  • 100% discreet packaging — no logos, total privacy
  • Fast tracked shipping of First Time Softee Lover across Australia
  • Perfect starter vibrator that grows with your comfort level and needs

Order your First Time Softee Lover from the cockringshop for gentle introduction to vibrating pleasure that respects your comfort while still bringing you to satisfying climax. The thoughtful dual-texture design beats harsh single-material alternatives.

Shipping Information & Policy


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Returns Policy


We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.

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To be eligible for a refund, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging.

You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase. We do not issue refunds for change of mind or incorrect choice.

Under Australian Consumer Law, we are not obliged to accept returns for “incorrect choice” or “change of mind” so please choose your products carefully.

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If your return request is accepted, we will provide you with all instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How does the First Time Softee Lover provide stimulation for beginners?
Gentle vibrations target the clitoris and vagina through multiple speed settings allowing newcomers to gradually explore arousal levels and discover preferred stimulation intensity for comfortable masturbation experiences.
What makes the First Time Softee Lover effective for clitoral arousal?
Variable speed vibrations concentrate sensation on the clitoris while the soft TPE sleeve provides comfortable contact enabling users to achieve orgasm through customized external stimulation patterns.
Why is the First Time Softee Lover better for vaginal penetration than larger vibrators?
Its modest 5 inch length and 1.25 inch width accommodate beginners comfortably during vaginal insertion reducing intimidation while still providing satisfying internal stimulation for G spot arousal and pleasure.
When should the First Time Softee Lover be used for maximum arousal?
During solo masturbation sessions when relaxed and comfortable it delivers optimal clitoral and vaginal stimulation through progressive speed exploration helping build arousal gradually toward satisfying orgasmic release.
Does the First Time Softee Lover work effectively for different masturbation preferences?
Dual texture options from the removable sleeve accommodate varied sensation preferences during clitoral stimulation and vaginal penetration adapting to different arousal styles and masturbation techniques for personalized pleasure.

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