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First Time Softee Lover by California Exotics - Mini & Slim Vibrators
First Time Softee Lover by California Exotics - Mini & Slim Vibrators
First Time Softee Lover by California Exotics - Mini & Slim Vibrators

First Time Softee Lover by California Exotics

$14.99
$14.99

First Time Softee Lover brings gentle vibrations through a removable TPE sleeve that warms to your body temperature. This beginner-friendly vibrator from California Exotics features multiple speeds and comfortable 5-inch sizing for confident exploration and satisfying orgasms.

Key Features:

Designed for first time users with gentle 5 inch length and 1.25 inch width to provide comfortable vaginal or clitoral stimulation without overwhelming beginners exploring masturbation.

Removable TPE sleeve offers two distinct textures for varied sensations during arousal while the ABS plastic core ensures reliable vibration delivery for consistent orgasmic stimulation.

Multiple vibration speeds allow customizable clitoral and vaginal stimulation intensity helping users discover preferred arousal levels and build confidence during intimate exploration and masturbation sessions.

Whisper quiet motor delivers discreet vibrations for private masturbation while compact size enables travel convenience and easy storage between intimate self pleasure sessions and exploration.

Body safe medical grade materials provide phthalate free vaginal and clitoral contact during penetration and external stimulation ensuring safe intimate exploration for sensitive genital areas.

SKU: VB-693-COLORS-PINK-32964
Availability: Out Of Stock
Product type: Mini & Slim Vibrators
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Colour: Pink

A compact, beginner-friendly vibrator with a removable soft sleeve that warms to your body temperature and dual textures for gentle clit stimulation without overwhelming sensation.

Why choose the First Time Softee Lover by California Exotics
  • Removable sleeve: Switch between soft TPE and firm ABS plastic
  • Body-warming material: Velvety sleeve heats up naturally during use
  • Multiple vibration speeds: Build arousal gradually at your own pace
  • Compact size: 5 inches long, 1.25 inches wide, non-intimidating
  • Quiet motor: Discreet operation in shared living spaces
  • Waterproof design: Easy cleaning and safe for bath play
  • Simple controls: No complex settings to figure out
📦 Discreet plain-wrapped delivery  •  💳 Private billing  •  ↩️ Easy size-swap returns

What it does

Soft vibrations travel through the velvety TPE sleeve to caress your clit and labia with warm, skin-like contact that builds arousal gradually. Multiple speed settings let you control how much sensation reaches your most responsive areas, cushioning the motor's power against delicate tissue in a way harder vibrators cannot. Unlike rigid designs that can feel jarring, this thoughtful construction delivers satisfying contact that gets you wet and ready without overwhelming your vulva.

As you become more aroused, nerve endings throughout your vulva and clit respond to the gentle pulses. When you're ready to climax, the consistent motor provides steady contact that helps your orgasm build and peak without jarring intensity. For comparison, Metal Vibrators deliver firm, unyielding stimulation, whereas this design flexes with your body and responds to your arousal.

Specifications

  • Total length: 5 inches
  • Diameter: 1.25 inches
  • Sleeve material: Medical-grade TPE (removable)
  • Core material: Sturdy ABS plastic
  • Power: 2 AAA batteries
  • Vibration settings: Multiple speeds
  • Waterproof: Yes
  • Motor noise: Whisper-quiet operation

Getting the most from it

Start with the lowest vibration setting and focus on gentle circular motions around your clit and labia until your body responds. Apply water-based lubricant to the sleeve beforehand so it glides smoothly and warms faster against your skin. As arousal builds, gradually increase the vibration strength and experiment with which areas respond best to the contact. Try removing the sleeve partway through to feel the contrast between soft and firm textures—this shift often triggers a stronger response and helps push you toward climax. Cockringshop specialises in products for men and couples, so if you're exploring together, this compact size works well for partnered play too.

How to use it

Insert fresh AAA batteries and test the vibration levels to find your comfort zone before you start. Apply water-based lubricant to the velvety sleeve and position it against your clit, letting the soft material warm up against your skin for a few moments. Begin with the lowest speed setting and focus on gentle circular motions around your clit and labia until you feel your body responding.

Gradually increase the vibration strength as your arousal grows, paying attention to which areas respond best to the contact. Try removing the sleeve partway through to compare the firmer plastic sensation against your now-sensitive clit. After use, rinse thoroughly with warm water and mild soap, then air-dry completely before storage. Water-based lubricant makes cleanup easy and the waterproof design means you can use it in the bath or shower.

Feature breakdown

Feature Specification Benefit Experience
Removable TPE Sleeve Velvety soft material that warms to body temperature Cushions vibrations for gentle clit contact Feels intimate and skin-like during use
Multiple Speed Motor Variable intensity with whisper-quiet operation Builds arousal progressively toward climax Lets you customise sensation levels
Compact Size 1.25-inch diameter, 5-inch length Non-intimidating for beginners Comfortable positioning without overwhelm
Waterproof Construction Sealed design for thorough cleaning Safe for bath and shower play Easy maintenance and storage

Who it suits

Newcomers to sex toys will appreciate the non-intimidating size and gentle materials that make exploration feel safe rather than overwhelming. Anyone who finds traditional vibrators too harsh or numbing will benefit from the cushioned sensation that still provides enough power to reach orgasm. Simple controls work well if you prefer focusing on pleasure rather than figuring out complex settings, and the quiet motor keeps sessions private in shared living spaces.

Skip this vibrator if you prefer firm, unyielding stimulation without any give, or if you need a high-powered motor for strong clitoral sensation. Those who want multiple independent functions or app control will find the basic speed-only interface limiting. It's also not ideal if you prefer larger insertable sex toys or need deeper internal stimulation.

Tested and quality-checked

Every new line we stock is hands-on tested before it ever goes live — we power it up, run it through its functions, and check it for safety and for how it actually performs. Overseas orders get a second function-test right before they ship, so a dead motor never reaches your door. Nothing is used for its intended purpose; it is checked, inspected, and re-boxed. What that means for you is simple: the unit you open is one we already know works. See how we test every product →

How it compares

Mini and slim vibrators come in two main types: soft, flexible designs like this one, and firm, rigid alternatives. Soft-sleeved vibrators cushion vibrations and warm to your body, making them feel intimate and skin-like—ideal if standard vibrators feel harsh against sensitive tissue. Firm vibrators deliver direct, unyielding stimulation without flex. Premium Prostate Vibrators offer different internal targeting, whereas this design focuses on external clit and labia contact. Choose soft if you want comfort and gradual arousal; choose firm if you prefer direct, intense sensation.

Please read — safety first. Put the ring on before you are fully erect and use plenty of water-based lubricant so it slides on without pinching. Keep wear time short — no more than 20 minutes while you are getting used to it, and never fall asleep wearing one. Take it off straight away if you feel numbness, coldness, a change in colour, or any pain, as these mean blood flow has been cut off too far. Never share between partners without cleaning the item first or using a fresh condom. As porous materials can harbour bacteria, use a condom over them for sharing or easy clean-up. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice, and does not take your personal circumstances into account. Stop use and speak with a qualified medical professional if you have a relevant health condition, take medication for erectile function or blood pressure, or notice pain, numbness, or discolouration that does not settle.

What you can use it with

Pair this vibrator with Couples Intimacy Kits for partnered play—the compact size and quiet motor make it easy to incorporate into shared sessions without overwhelming either partner. Kits designed for couples often include positioning aids, restraints, or complementary vibrators that work well alongside a gentle mini vibrator. The removable sleeve also makes it easy to clean between uses if you're swapping it between partners.

More from California Exotics

California Exotics specialises in beginner-friendly adult toys that prioritise comfort and accessibility over intimidating size or overwhelming power. California Exotics range includes other mini and slim vibrators, couples' kits, and entry-level designs perfect for anyone exploring sex toys for the first time.

Read more before you buy

For more insight into choosing between mini vibrators and understanding what features suit your body best, check out the guide to Romant Kawayi3 Mini Vibrator on the Adultsmart blog.

Why buy the First Time Softee Lover by California Exotics

Ready to find a ring that actually fits? Order the First Time Softee Lover by California Exotics from The Cock Ring Store and receive a genuine, function-tested and quality-checked product with discreet packaging and shipping. Cockringshop stocks this vibrator in stock and ready to dispatch Australia-wide. Precise sizing, honest reviews, and discreet delivery Australia-wide. The Cock Ring Store ships discreetly Australia-wide.

Shipping Information & Policy


Cockringshop.com.au ships with Australia Post. We ship from Sydney.

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 1-6 business days after shipping, but may subject to any postage carrier related delays beyond our control.

Free standard shipping on orders shipped within Australia above $200. For orders below $200 standard shipping within Australia is $12.95 and will be added at checkout.

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1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)

All in stock orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days for orders received before 12pm. Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next business day.

Orders are typically received 1-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the nearest depot location.

2. Rural Areas (within Australia)

All orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days before 12pm.

Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next Business day.

Packages below 2kg are usually received 3-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the local Australia Post depot.

International Shipping

The price for international shipping is AU$12.95 for orders equal to or below 0.399kg (399grams), and AU$22.95 for orders with a total weight equal to or above 0.4kg (400 grams).

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping. 

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.

Please note in regards to all orders

– These expected delivery dates/times are based on carrier shipping practices, your destination, and the items in your order.

– Expected delivery dates are estimates. Orders can be delayed due to fraud verification or the time of the order being placed. Items that are not regularly stocked cannot be held to the expected delivery dates.

– Orders may be delivered in separate shipments.

– The order cut off times are based on normal Business Hours and exclude weekends and Holidays: Monday – Friday 12 pm

– When your order ships you will receive an email from us with a link to track your order.  If you receive your tracking number before 6 pm (AEST) it may not be updated on the Carrier’s website until that evening.

Due to large amounts of online credit card fraud, all orders are subject to approval by our payment verification department. We will notify you by phone or email should your order be delayed.

Returns Policy


We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.

Returns and exchanges are only available for faulty items, goods not as described, or in some instances, for incorrect sizing.

Due to health and safety regulations, cockringshop.com.au cannot resell any returned or exchanged products.

This policy is in place to prioritise your well-being and ensure that you receive the highest standard of hygiene and quality in all products.

To be eligible for a refund, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging.

You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase. We do not issue refunds for change of mind or incorrect choice.

Under Australian Consumer Law, we are not obliged to accept returns for “incorrect choice” or “change of mind” so please choose your products carefully.

Any freight and insurance costs to return the item to us are at your expense. This includes the liability for any lost freight – send via registered post.

If your return request is accepted, we will provide you with all instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.

Damages and issues

Please inspect your order upon reception and contact us immediately if the item is defective, damaged or if you receive the wrong item, so that we can evaluate the issue and make it right.

Exceptions / non-returnable items

We do not accept returns for any products that have change of mind, damaged products, or for products that have been used or do not have their original packaging.

Please get in touch if you have questions or concerns about your specific item.

Unfortunately, we cannot accept returns on sale items or gift cards.

Refunds

We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved or not. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method within 7 business days.

Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process and post the refund

Frequently Asked Questions

How does the First Time Softee Lover provide stimulation for beginners?
Gentle vibrations target the clitoris and vagina through multiple speed settings allowing newcomers to gradually explore arousal levels and discover preferred stimulation intensity for comfortable masturbation experiences.
What makes the First Time Softee Lover effective for clitoral arousal?
Variable speed vibrations concentrate sensation on the clitoris while the soft TPE sleeve provides comfortable contact enabling users to achieve orgasm through customized external stimulation patterns.
Why is the First Time Softee Lover better for vaginal penetration than larger vibrators?
Its modest 5 inch length and 1.25 inch width accommodate beginners comfortably during vaginal insertion reducing intimidation while still providing satisfying internal stimulation for G spot arousal and pleasure.
When should the First Time Softee Lover be used for maximum arousal?
During solo masturbation sessions when relaxed and comfortable it delivers optimal clitoral and vaginal stimulation through progressive speed exploration helping build arousal gradually toward satisfying orgasmic release.
Does the First Time Softee Lover work effectively for different masturbation preferences?
Dual texture options from the removable sleeve accommodate varied sensation preferences during clitoral stimulation and vaginal penetration adapting to different arousal styles and masturbation techniques for personalized pleasure.

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