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Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE Stretching Anal Plug - Butt Plugs
Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE Stretching Anal Plug - Butt Plugs
Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE Stretching Anal Plug - Butt Plugs
Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE Stretching Anal Plug - Butt Plugs
Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE Stretching Anal Plug - Butt Plugs
Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE Stretching Anal Plug - Butt Plugs

Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE Stretching Anal Plug

$109.99
$109.99

Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE is a silicone anal plug with dual tapered fingers that spread up to 2.5cm apart while delivering nine vibration speeds via wireless remote control from 10 meters away for rhythmic stretching sensations.

Key Features:

Dual spreading and vibration motion creates simultaneous stimulation standard anal toys cannot produce.

Medical-grade silicone ensures body-safe, phthalate-free material comfortable for extended anal sessions.

Wireless remote with 9.8-meter range enables hands-free control during solo masturbation or partner play.

Eight spreading patterns independent from nine vibration speeds offer infinite customization options.

Waterproof IPX6 construction allows shower use with rechargeable battery for cordless pleasure.

SKU: NEW-10505-BLACK
Availability: Out Of Stock
Product type: Butt Plugs
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Colour: Black

Spread the Love is a dual-finger anal plug that opens and closes rhythmically while vibrating, stretching your anal walls in ways a solid plug cannot. Wireless remote control lets you adjust nine vibration speeds and eight spreading patterns from up to 10 metres away, making it ideal for anyone seeking novel, intense anal sensation.

Why choose the Spread the Love Anal Plug by Evolved
  • Dual-action spreading: Two tapered shafts open and close rhythmically inside you
  • Nine vibration speeds: Layer vibrations on top of spreading for dual stimulation
  • Eight spreading patterns: Customise the rhythm and intensity to suit your mood
  • Wireless remote control: Adjust settings from up to 10 metres away hands-free
  • Medical-grade silicone: Body-safe, phthalate and latex-free, waterproof to IPX6
  • Tapered tips: Smooth entry with gradual widening toward the ergonomic base
  • USB rechargeable: No batteries needed, long-lasting charge between sessions
📦 Discreet plain-wrapped delivery  •  💳 Private billing  •  ↩️ Easy size-swap returns

What it does

When you insert the Spread the Love, the two tapered fingers nestle into your anal opening and begin their rhythmic dance—spreading wider, then closing, over and over. This spreading sensation hits your anal walls and the sensitive tissue around your sphincter in ways a solid plug simply cannot replicate. As arousal climbs, your body becomes acutely aware of each spreading cycle: your muscles tighten instinctively as the fingers close, then relax into the stretch as they open. Nine vibration speeds layer on top of the spreading motion, so you're receiving dual stimulation simultaneously.

Your nerve endings fire in patterns different from what you've felt before, keeping every session fresh and ensuring you stay on the edge longer before orgasm hits. If you're interested in other forms of prostate stimulation, Prostate Beads offer a different approach to building sensation. During use, the rhythmic tension-and-release creates a cumulative effect that builds pressure deep in your rectum or prostate, triggering waves of sensation with total-body intensity.

Specifications

  • Insertable length: 11.4 cm
  • Widest diameter: 3.9 cm
  • Material: Premium medical-grade silicone, phthalate and latex-free
  • Power: USB rechargeable with wireless remote control
  • Remote range: Up to 9.8 metres
  • Vibration speeds: 9
  • Spreading patterns: 8
  • Waterproof rating: IPX6

Size and first use

At 11.4 cm insertable length with tapered tips, this plug is manageable for most users but does spread to 3.9 cm at its widest point once inside you. Start by charging via USB, then apply generous water-based lubricant to the tips and your anal opening. Position yourself on your back or hands and knees, then slowly guide the narrow tips in, allowing your sphincter to relax around the tapered shaft. Once fully inserted, the ergonomic base will settle against your cheeks. Cockringshop specialise in products for men and couples of all experience levels, so take your time getting comfortable with the insertion before activating any patterns.

How to use it

Turn on the spreading motion first at a low pattern to let your body adjust to the opening-and-closing rhythm, then layer in vibrations once you're comfortable. Use the wireless remote to cycle through patterns without breaking rhythm—ramp up from gentle spreading to faster cycles as your arousal intensifies. Thrust the plug slowly, letting the handle move with your body while the fingers continue their work inside you.

When you're chasing orgasm, switch to one of the faster vibration speeds combined with a rapid spreading pattern, then drive the plug deeper using short, controlled strokes. Most people find that combining mid-level spreading with high vibration creates the fastest route to climax; experiment to discover whether you prefer the spread to lead or follow the vibrations. After use, clean under running water or wipe with a damp cloth, then air-dry fully before storage.

Feature breakdown

Feature Specification Benefit Experience
Dual-finger spreading Two tapered shafts that open and close rhythmically Mimics natural opening and stretching, not static Unique fullness that builds as the plug opens inside you
Nine vibration speeds Layered on top of spreading motion Dual stimulation without choosing one or the other Nerve endings fire in fresh patterns, keeping you on edge
Eight spreading patterns Customisable rhythm controlled by wireless remote You control intensity and pace from up to 10 metres away Hands-free adjustment without breaking rhythm or position
Medical-grade silicone Phthalate and latex-free, IPX6 waterproof Body-safe, durable, and easy to clean thoroughly Use in the shower, splash freely, clean under running water

Who it suits

Spread the Love works brilliantly for anyone seeking novel anal sensation beyond vibration alone. If you've used standard plugs and found them too static, or if you enjoy prostate stimulation and want something that actively works your hole rather than sitting passively inside, this is for you. People who appreciate hands-free, remote-controlled play will love the wireless range and pattern variety.

Skip this one if you prefer simple, straightforward plugs without spreading motion, or if you're brand new to anal play and need something smaller to start with. If you find vibration alone overwhelming without other sensations, the dual action of spreading plus vibration might be too much intensity to begin with. It's also not ideal if you want a completely silent sex toy—the motor and spreading mechanism will produce some sound during use.

Tested and quality-checked

Every new line we stock is hands-on tested before it ever goes live — we power it up, run it through its functions, and check it for safety and for how it actually performs. Overseas orders get a second function-test right before they ship, so a dead motor never reaches your door. Nothing is used for its intended purpose; it is checked, inspected, and re-boxed. What that means for you is simple: the unit you open is one we already know works. See how we test every product →

How it compares

Standard anal plugs sit static inside you, offering only the sensation of fullness and any vibration you add. Slide Easy Prostate Plugs deliver focused prostate stimulation without spreading motion. Spread the Love combines rhythmic opening-and-closing with vibration, creating a fundamentally different sensation: your anal walls and sphincter experience active stretching and release, not just pressure or buzz. This makes it suited to users who want motion and intensity layered together, rather than one sensation at a time.

Please read — safety first. Put the ring on before you are fully erect and use plenty of water-based lubricant so it slides on without pinching. Keep wear time short — no more than 20 minutes while you are getting used to it, and never fall asleep wearing one. Take it off straight away if you feel numbness, coldness, a change in colour, or any pain, as these mean blood flow has been cut off too far. Never share between partners without cleaning the item first or using a fresh condom. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice, and does not take your personal circumstances into account. Stop use and speak with a qualified medical professional if you have a relevant health condition, take medication for erectile function or blood pressure, or notice pain, numbness, or discolouration that does not settle.

What you can use it with

Pair Spread the Love with Cock Ring Sets during partnered or solo play to maintain erection while the plug works your prostate and anal walls. A cock ring keeps blood flow strong and sensation heightened, allowing you to stay hard and present while the spreading and vibration build intensity. Together, they create a full-body experience that intensifies arousal and orgasm potential without competing for attention.

More from Evolved

Evolved makes a range of body-safe silicone toys designed for real sensation and reliable performance. if you're after plugs, vibrators, or other adult toys, the brand focuses on quality materials and thoughtful design that delivers during use.

Read more before you buy

New to anal play or want a refresher on technique and safety? Anal Plugs For First Timers How To Enjoy Every Step is a solid guide to getting started comfortably and confidently.

Why buy the Spread the Love Anal Plug by Evolved

Want firmer, longer-lasting results without the guesswork? Buy the Spread the Love Anal Plug by Evolved from The Cock Ring Store. Every unit is genuine, function-tested, and quality-checked before dispatch. Cockringshop ships in discreet packaging so your order arrives private and unmarked. Real fit advice, body-safe materials, and plain-packaged shipping. The Cock Ring Store ships discreetly Australia-wide.

Shipping Information & Policy


Cockringshop.com.au ships with Australia Post. We ship from Sydney.

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 1-6 business days after shipping, but may subject to any postage carrier related delays beyond our control.

Free standard shipping on orders shipped within Australia above $200. For orders below $200 standard shipping within Australia is $12.95 and will be added at checkout.

Orders addressed to P.O box, G.P.O box or Parcel Collect will be handled by Australia Post. Extra time should be allocated for these orders.

Shipping Transit Times (Including Free Shipping)

Shipping time refers to the estimated time that it will take to deliver your order after it’s ready to ship (Please note this does not include time to process your order). Shipping time does not commence after your order is put through but begins the moment your order has been processed and is ready to dispatch via the our freight carrier..

1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)

All in stock orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days for orders received before 12pm. Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next business day.

Orders are typically received 1-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the nearest depot location.

2. Rural Areas (within Australia)

All orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days before 12pm.

Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next Business day.

Packages below 2kg are usually received 3-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the local Australia Post depot.

International Shipping

The price for international shipping is AU$12.95 for orders equal to or below 0.399kg (399grams), and AU$22.95 for orders with a total weight equal to or above 0.4kg (400 grams).

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping. 

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.

Please note in regards to all orders

– These expected delivery dates/times are based on carrier shipping practices, your destination, and the items in your order.

– Expected delivery dates are estimates. Orders can be delayed due to fraud verification or the time of the order being placed. Items that are not regularly stocked cannot be held to the expected delivery dates.

– Orders may be delivered in separate shipments.

– The order cut off times are based on normal Business Hours and exclude weekends and Holidays: Monday – Friday 12 pm

– When your order ships you will receive an email from us with a link to track your order.  If you receive your tracking number before 6 pm (AEST) it may not be updated on the Carrier’s website until that evening.

Due to large amounts of online credit card fraud, all orders are subject to approval by our payment verification department. We will notify you by phone or email should your order be delayed.

Returns Policy


We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.

Returns and exchanges are only available for faulty items, goods not as described, or in some instances, for incorrect sizing.

Due to health and safety regulations, cockringshop.com.au cannot resell any returned or exchanged products.

This policy is in place to prioritise your well-being and ensure that you receive the highest standard of hygiene and quality in all products.

To be eligible for a refund, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging.

You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase. We do not issue refunds for change of mind or incorrect choice.

Under Australian Consumer Law, we are not obliged to accept returns for “incorrect choice” or “change of mind” so please choose your products carefully.

Any freight and insurance costs to return the item to us are at your expense. This includes the liability for any lost freight – send via registered post.

If your return request is accepted, we will provide you with all instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.

Damages and issues

Please inspect your order upon reception and contact us immediately if the item is defective, damaged or if you receive the wrong item, so that we can evaluate the issue and make it right.

Exceptions / non-returnable items

We do not accept returns for any products that have change of mind, damaged products, or for products that have been used or do not have their original packaging.

Please get in touch if you have questions or concerns about your specific item.

Unfortunately, we cannot accept returns on sale items or gift cards.

Refunds

We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved or not. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method within 7 business days.

Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process and post the refund

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE Anal Plug with Wireless Remote and how does it differ from traditional anal toys?
The Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE Anal Plug combines dual spreading fingers with nine vibration speeds, creating sensations standard plugs cannot replicate. Two tapered shafts open and close rhythmically up to 2.5cm apart while simultaneously delivering vibrations deep inside. Medical-grade silicone construction ensures body-safe comfort during extended sessions. Wireless remote control from 9.8 meters away lets you adjust spreading patterns and vibration speeds independently without interrupting pleasure.
Why would someone choose the Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE over a standard vibrating butt plug?
Spreading motion forces your anal walls to actively engage rather than passively accommodate stimulation. In our experience selling advanced anal toys, customers report that the dual-motion system—spreading independent from vibration—creates cumulative sensations building to more intense orgasms than single-mechanism designs. Eight spreading patterns combined with nine vibration speeds give you infinite customization options. Most wearers discover that layering both motions simultaneously triggers prostate contact points solid toys simply cannot reach.
Does the Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE work for anal beginners, or is it strictly for experienced users?
Tapered tips ease insertion smoothly even for newcomers willing to start with low spreading patterns. Beginners should begin with gentle pattern settings and apply generous water-based lubricant before insertion of the 11.4cm insertable length. After selling hundreds of these, we've found that intermediate users master the dual-control system fastest. Starting at lower speeds then gradually ramping intensity lets your sphincter adjust naturally to the opening-and-closing rhythm throughout your session.
Are the spreading patterns and vibration speeds independent, allowing complete control over your pleasure?
Absolutely—you control nine vibration speeds and eight spreading patterns completely separately via wireless remote. Your partner can adjust settings from across the room while you focus entirely on sensation and depth control. Customers tell us they layer different combinations until discovering their personal pleasure blueprint. IPX6 waterproof construction means you adjust settings freely during shower sessions without worrying about water damage to electronics.
How should you apply lubricant and position yourself when using the Gender X SPREAD THE LOVE for maximum comfort?
Apply water-based lubricant generously to both tapered tips and your anal opening before slowly guiding insertion with the ergonomic handle pointing downward. Position yourself on your back or hands-and-knees, then insert roughly 11cm until the base settles comfortably against your cheeks. Testing confirmed that starting with low spreading patterns first, then layering vibration once comfortable, creates the smoothest entry experience. Begin thrusting slowly while the spreading motion works, then increase speed as arousal intensifies toward climax.

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