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Secret Kisses Boudoir Lace Collar & Cuff by Xgen Products - Cuffs And Restraints
Secret Kisses Boudoir Lace Collar & Cuff by Xgen Products - Cuffs And Restraints

Secret Kisses Boudoir Lace Collar & Cuff by Xgen Products

$44.99
$44.99

Secret Kisses Boudoir Lace Collar & Cuff unites reinforced lace construction with adjustable sizing controls, featuring gold-plated hardware that resists tarnishing and wear. The customizable fit mechanism allows precise positioning for extended sessions.

Key Features:

Luxurious black lace collar and matching cuffs create elegant restraint for bondage play with adjustable sizing and comfortable fit for extended intimate sessions.

Gold chain connections between collar and cuffs establish dominant and submissive power dynamics while maintaining sophisticated aesthetic appeal during kinky encounters.

Lobster clasp closures provide secure fastening around neck and wrists enabling safe restraint play with quick release capability for emergency removal.

Versatile bondage set layers effectively with other fetish gear for customized restraint scenarios from light submission play to intense BDSM sessions.

Soft lace material delivers tactile stimulation against skin while sturdy metal hardware ensures reliable restraint during passionate intimate encounters and role play.

Vendor: Xgen Products
SKU: NCR-014-NOATTRIBUTES-SHOP-NONE-67392
Availability: Out Of Stock
Product type: Cuffs And Restraints
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Secret Kisses Boudoir Lace Collar & Cuff delivers adjustable restraint control with reinforced lace construction and tarnish-resistant gold hardware. Perfect for couples wanting durable, customisable restraints that suit different body types and session intensities.

Why choose the Secret Kisses Boudoir Lace Collar & Cuff by
  • Reinforced construction: Stress-point stitching prevents tearing during vigorous activity
  • Gold-plated hardware: Tarnish-resistant and corrosion-proof for years of use
  • Adjustable sizing: Lobster clasp closures let you customise tightness for comfort
  • Flexible fit: Neck 12–16 inches, wrists 6–9 inches accommodate most body types
  • Elegant design: Lace and gold suit both subtle and dramatic restraint scenarios
  • Easy care: Hand wash cold water, air dry—simple maintenance between sessions
  • Reliable holding: Secure locking mechanism keeps positioning consistent throughout use
📦 Discreet plain-wrapped delivery  •  💳 Private billing  •  ↩️ Easy size-swap returns

What it does

Reinforced lace construction with stress-point stitching delivers durability that standard restraint accessories cannot match. Multiple connection points feature reinforced stitching to prevent tearing during intense sessions. Gold-plated hardware resists corrosion and maintains structural integrity, so the collar and cuffs remain functional and lustrous through repeated use without degradation at the seams or clasps.

Adjustable lobster clasp closures give you precise control over sizing and tightness. You can customise the fit for comfort preferences and adapt positioning throughout extended sessions. Obsessive offers similar restraint styles if you prefer alternative aesthetics. Combining durable materials with adjustment flexibility means these restraints evolve with your preferences and work reliably across different body types and usage intensities.

Specifications

  • Construction: Reinforced lace with stress-point stitching
  • Hardware: Tarnish-resistant gold-plated with lobster clasp closures
  • Neck fit: 12–16 inches circumference
  • Wrist fit: 6–9 inches circumference
  • Closure mechanism: Secure locking lobster clasp system
  • Care: Hand wash in cold water, air dry away from direct sunlight

Fit and sizing

Measure your neck and wrists with a soft tape measure or flexible ruler to find your size. Neck circumference should fall between 12–16 inches, and wrist circumference between 6–9 inches. Choose comfort over ego—restraints should feel snug without cutting off blood flow or causing numbness. Cockringshop specialises in products for men and couples, and our team can help you confirm sizing before you order. If you're between sizes, go for the larger fit; you can always tighten the clasp during use.

How to use it

Position the collar around your neck and adjust the lace strap using the lobster clasp until it feels snug without restricting circulation. Secure the matching cuffs around your wrists with the same adjustment system. Test the tightness before your session begins so you know your comfort limits. Pre-lubing the lace saves discomfort if you're adding other restraint accessories or wearing them for extended periods.

Communicate regularly with your partner about how the restraints feel and adjust positioning as needed throughout your session. Confident use during vigorous activity is possible because of the reinforced construction, but check in often to prevent circulation issues. After use, hand wash in cold water and air dry away from direct sunlight to keep the lace and hardware in top condition.

Feature breakdown

Feature Specification Benefit Experience
Reinforced lace construction Stress-point stitching at connection points Confident restraint play without worry of tearing Durability you can rely on during vigorous activity
Gold-plated hardware Tarnish-resistant and corrosion-proof Long-lasting appearance and structural integrity Hardware stays lustrous through repeated sessions
Adjustable lobster clasp closure Precise sizing control for both collar and cuffs Personalised restraint experiences adapted to individual needs Customisable tightness for comfort and session intensity
Flexible adjustment range Neck 12–16 inches, wrists 6–9 inches Accommodates different body proportions Secure positioning maintained throughout extended wear

Who it suits

Couples seeking durable restraint accessories that provide precise control over restriction levels will love this set. Adjustable design works for various body types while maintaining consistent performance, making it suitable for both experienced practitioners and newcomers to restraint play. Quality construction ensures investment value for regular users who want gear that lasts.

Skip this if you prefer rigid metal restraints or need heavier, more industrial-style options. Those who dislike hand-washing items or prefer low-maintenance gear may find the care routine annoying. If you need restraints with locking mechanisms that prevent self-release, this adjustable clasp system isn't the right choice—you retain control of tightness and release throughout use.

Tested and quality-checked

Every new line we stock is hands-on tested before it ever goes live — we power it up, run it through its functions, and check it for safety and for how it actually performs. Overseas orders get a second function-test right before they ship, so a dead motor never reaches your door. Nothing is used for its intended purpose; it is checked, inspected, and re-boxed. What that means for you is simple: the unit you open is one we already know works. See how we test every product →

How it compares

Lace-and-hardware collar-and-cuff sets like this one offer elegant aesthetics with adjustable fit, making them suitable for both subtle bedroom enhancement and dramatic restraint play. Passion Lingerie provides similar styled options if you want alternative designs. Steel or leather restraints, by contrast, are rigid and offer no give—they suit those seeking heavier, more permanent-feeling restraint without adjustment. Lace provides a softer feel against skin while maintaining holding strength; metal and leather are firmer and more visually intense.

Please read — safety first. Put the ring on before you are fully erect and use plenty of water-based lubricant so it slides on without pinching. Keep wear time short — no more than 20 minutes while you are getting used to it, and never fall asleep wearing one. Take it off straight away if you feel numbness, coldness, a change in colour, or any pain, as these mean blood flow has been cut off too far. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice, and does not take your personal circumstances into account. Stop use and speak with a qualified medical professional if you have a relevant health condition, take medication for erectile function or blood pressure, or notice pain, numbness, or discolouration that does not settle.

What you can use it with

Pair this collar and cuff set with other restraint gear to build more complex bondage scenarios. Couples Intimacy Kits combine multiple restraint and sensation items designed to work together, letting you expand your setup without buying items one at a time. Bondage accessories like spreader bars or additional cuffs attach easily to the lobster clasps, giving you flexibility to create customised restraint positions.

More from Xgen Products

Xgen Products specialises in durable intimate accessories with customisable features for enhanced user control. Browse the full range to find other restraint options, cuffs, and collars that suit different aesthetics and restraint preferences.

Read more before you buy

New to restraint play or want to understand safety and technique better? Art Of Restraints covers positioning, communication, and best practice for safe and enjoyable restraint sessions.

Why buy the Secret Kisses Boudoir Lace Collar & Cuff by Xgen Products

Want firmer, longer-lasting results without the guesswork? Buy the Secret Kisses Boudoir Lace Collar & Cuff from The Cock Ring Store at Cockringshop—it's genuine, function-tested, and quality-checked. We ship discreetly to anywhere in Australia, and every order arrives in unmarked packaging. Cockringshop is Australia's cock ring specialists, helping you buy with confidence. The Cock Ring Store ships discreetly Australia-wide.

Shipping Information & Policy


Cockringshop.com.au ships with Australia Post. We ship from Sydney.

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 1-6 business days after shipping, but may subject to any postage carrier related delays beyond our control.

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1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)

All in stock orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days for orders received before 12pm. Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next business day.

Orders are typically received 1-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the nearest depot location.

2. Rural Areas (within Australia)

All orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days before 12pm.

Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next Business day.

Packages below 2kg are usually received 3-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the local Australia Post depot.

International Shipping

The price for international shipping is AU$12.95 for orders equal to or below 0.399kg (399grams), and AU$22.95 for orders with a total weight equal to or above 0.4kg (400 grams).

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping. 

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.

Please note in regards to all orders

– These expected delivery dates/times are based on carrier shipping practices, your destination, and the items in your order.

– Expected delivery dates are estimates. Orders can be delayed due to fraud verification or the time of the order being placed. Items that are not regularly stocked cannot be held to the expected delivery dates.

– Orders may be delivered in separate shipments.

– The order cut off times are based on normal Business Hours and exclude weekends and Holidays: Monday – Friday 12 pm

– When your order ships you will receive an email from us with a link to track your order.  If you receive your tracking number before 6 pm (AEST) it may not be updated on the Carrier’s website until that evening.

Due to large amounts of online credit card fraud, all orders are subject to approval by our payment verification department. We will notify you by phone or email should your order be delayed.

Returns Policy


We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.

Returns and exchanges are only available for faulty items, goods not as described, or in some instances, for incorrect sizing.

Due to health and safety regulations, cockringshop.com.au cannot resell any returned or exchanged products.

This policy is in place to prioritise your well-being and ensure that you receive the highest standard of hygiene and quality in all products.

To be eligible for a refund, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging.

You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase. We do not issue refunds for change of mind or incorrect choice.

Under Australian Consumer Law, we are not obliged to accept returns for “incorrect choice” or “change of mind” so please choose your products carefully.

Any freight and insurance costs to return the item to us are at your expense. This includes the liability for any lost freight – send via registered post.

If your return request is accepted, we will provide you with all instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.

Damages and issues

Please inspect your order upon reception and contact us immediately if the item is defective, damaged or if you receive the wrong item, so that we can evaluate the issue and make it right.

Exceptions / non-returnable items

We do not accept returns for any products that have change of mind, damaged products, or for products that have been used or do not have their original packaging.

Please get in touch if you have questions or concerns about your specific item.

Unfortunately, we cannot accept returns on sale items or gift cards.

Refunds

We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved or not. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method within 7 business days.

Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process and post the refund

Frequently Asked Questions

How does the Secret Kisses Boudoir Lace Collar & Cuff enhance power exchange dynamics during intimate play?
The adjustable restraint system establishes clear dominant and submissive roles through physical control while luxurious materials maintain comfort during extended bondage sessions and power play scenarios.
What makes the Secret Kisses Boudoir Lace Collar & Cuff suitable for different restraint positions and scenarios?
Gold chains connecting collar to cuffs allow varied positioning from arms raised overhead to wrists bound behind back while adjustable lace accommodates different body sizes.
Why does the Secret Kisses Boudoir Lace Collar & Cuff provide both comfort and security during bondage play?
Soft lace prevents chafing against sensitive neck and wrist areas while sturdy lobster clasps maintain secure restraint without compromising circulation or causing discomfort during scenes.
Which features of the Secret Kisses Boudoir Lace Collar & Cuff create visual appeal during fetish encounters?
Contrasting black lace and gleaming gold hardware create striking aesthetic that elevates ordinary restraint play into glamorous kinky fashion statement for bedroom encounters.
Does the Secret Kisses Boudoir Lace Collar & Cuff work effectively for both experienced and novice bondage practitioners?
Quick release clasps enable immediate removal for safety while adjustable design accommodates learning curves allowing gradual exploration of restraint intensity and submission dynamics.

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