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Lace and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva XS by Strap-On-Me - Strap On Sextoys
Lace and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva XS by Strap-On-Me - Strap On Sextoys
Lace and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva XS by Strap-On-Me - Strap On Sextoys

Lace and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva XS by Strap-On-Me

$69.99
$69.99

Strap On Me, Lace, and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva XS is a luxury harness that enables secure fucking with elegant aesthetics. The dual-material construction creates comfortable wear while lace detailing adds sophisticated visual appeal. Perfect for intimate couples seeking, style, and performance.

Key Features:

Elegant lace and microfiber construction combines sophisticated aesthetics with functional performance for intimate penetration play while ensuring secure dildo attachment and comfortable wearing experience.

Adjustable strap system accommodates waist measurements 64 70 cm providing customized fit that maintains positioning during vigorous sexual activity and penetration while distributing pressure evenly.

Premium material blend features 75% nylon and 25% elastane main fabric with 90% nylon 10% elastane lace elements ensuring durability flexibility and comfort during extended use.

Universal compatibility design securely holds various dildos and sex toys enabling diverse penetration experiences while maintaining stability and control during intimate encounters and sexual exploration.

Machine washable construction simplifies hygiene maintenance after sexual use while preserving the elegant lace appearance and functional integrity for repeated intimate encounters and penetration play.

Vendor: Strap-On-Me
SKU: NEW-4023
Availability: Out Of Stock
Product type: Strap On Sextoys
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Size: XS

Premium strap-on harness combining soft microfiber and delicate lace for couples seeking elegant, secure penetrative play. Adjustable straps and machine-washable construction deliver reliable performance and easy maintenance for extended sessions.

Why choose the Lace and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva
  • Material blend: 75% nylon, 25% elastane for structural support and flexibility
  • Stays in place: Ergonomic strap system prevents shifting during vigorous thrusting
  • Comfortable wear: Soft waistband distributes pressure evenly across hips
  • Visual appeal: Lace accents add sophistication without compromising stability
  • Easy care: Machine-washable for practical maintenance between uses
  • Adjustable fit: Side straps accommodate your body contours for optimal positioning
  • Universal compatibility: Works with standard strap-on accessories and dildos
📦 Discreet plain-wrapped delivery  •  💳 Private billing  •  ↩️ Easy size-swap returns

What it does

This harness uses advanced material engineering to position a dildo securely against your partner's body during penetration. Nylon and elastane blend provides structural support while allowing natural hip movement, so the attached sex toy stays exactly where you need it. Unlike basic harnesses that slip or shift during vigorous sessions, the ergonomic strap system maintains consistent contact throughout thrusting. Lace accents add visual sophistication without compromising core stability.

Wearing it builds confidence and comfort. Both partners report feeling more attractive and in control, which enhances connection rather than distracting from it. Secure fit allows powerful, consistent thrusting without concern about slippage, so you can focus entirely on pleasure and sensation. Adam Eve Sextoys also offer quality harness options if you want to compare styles and materials before you buy.

Specifications

  • Waist size: XS (64–70 cm / 25–27 inches)
  • Main fabric: 75% nylon, 25% elastane
  • Lace elements: 90% nylon, 10% elastane
  • Care: Machine-washable
  • Compatibility: Universal with standard strap-on accessories

Fit and sizing

Measure your natural waist at the narrowest point to determine if XS (64–70 cm) suits you. This size works best for smaller frames and slighter builds. Adjust the side straps until the harness sits snug against your body without restricting movement or blood flow. Comfort matters more than a loose fit—a harness that shifts during use defeats its purpose. Cockringshop specialise in products for men and couples, and our team can help you choose the right size if you're between measurements. Order a size that lets you move freely and thrust with confidence.

How to use it

Position the waistband around your hips at the height that feels natural for thrusting motions, ensuring the main panel sits flush against your pubic area. Adjust the side straps until the harness feels snug but not restrictive, allowing movement without shifting. Begin with gentle movements to establish rhythm and confirm both comfort and security before escalating to more vigorous activity. As confidence builds, adjust your hip angle and thrust pattern to maintain consistent pressure against your partner's most responsive areas.

After use, machine-wash the harness in warm water and allow it to air dry. Store it in a clean, dry place away from direct sunlight. Regular cleaning keeps the materials in good condition and ready for your next session.

Feature breakdown

Feature Specification Benefit Experience
Dual-material construction Microfiber and nylon-elastane blend Balances comfort with structural support Soft against skin, stable during use
Adjustable side straps Elastic with multiple positioning points Custom fit for different body shapes Snug, secure hold without restriction
Lace accents 90% nylon, 10% elastane detailing Aesthetic appeal without compromising function Confidence and attractiveness during play
Machine-washable Water-safe, durable materials Easy maintenance between sessions Hygienic, long-lasting wear

Who it suits

Couples seeking functional performance and aesthetic appeal in strap-on play will appreciate this harness. People with waist measurements between 64–70 cm who want reliable positioning during penetrative sex find the XS sizing ideal. Those who value elegant details and premium materials over basic utilitarian designs benefit from the lace accents and superior fabric blend. Users transitioning from cheaper harnesses that cause discomfort or slip during use discover significant improvement in both comfort and confidence.

Skip this if you need a larger size or prefer a minimal, purely functional design without decorative elements. Those with sensitive skin should test the materials first, though the nylon-elastane blend is generally well-tolerated. If you're new to strap-on play and unsure about fit, start with an adjustable harness like this one rather than a fixed design.

Tested and quality-checked

Every new line we stock is hands-on tested before it ever goes live — we power it up, run it through its functions, and check it for safety and for how it actually performs. Overseas orders get a second function-test right before they ship, so a dead motor never reaches your door. Nothing is used for its intended purpose; it is checked, inspected, and re-boxed. What that means for you is simple: the unit you open is one we already know works. See how we test every product →

How it compares

Strap-on harnesses differ from penetrative sex toys in that they hold a dildo in place against your body, leaving your hands free for other sensation and connection. This model combines premium materials and adjustable fit for comfort during extended use. Basic harnesses often slip or chafe, whereas this one's ergonomic design and soft waistband prevent discomfort. Pornhub Sextoys offer other harness styles if you want to explore different designs or materials before choosing.

Please read — safety first. Put the ring on before you are fully erect and use plenty of water-based lubricant so it slides on without pinching. Keep wear time short — no more than 20 minutes while you are getting used to it, and never fall asleep wearing one. Take it off straight away if you feel numbness, coldness, a change in colour, or any pain, as these mean blood flow has been cut off too far. Never share between partners without cleaning the item first or using a fresh condom. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice, and does not take your personal circumstances into account. Stop use and speak with a qualified medical professional if you have a relevant health condition, take medication for erectile function or blood pressure, or notice pain, numbness, or discolouration that does not settle.

What you can use it with

Pair this harness with compatible dildos and penetrative sex toys to customize your play style. Couples Intimacy Kits offer complementary products that work alongside harnesses to deepen shared pleasure and connection. Positioning sex toys, vibrating accessories, and multi-sex toy kits enhance sensation for both partners during strap-on play. Universal compatibility means you can switch sex toys to suit different moods and intensities.

More from Strap-On-Me

Strap On Me designs premium harnesses and accessories for couples seeking quality, comfort, and visual appeal. Explore other sizes, styles, and material combinations to find the perfect fit for your body and preferences.

Read more before you buy

Want to understand more about harness fit, care, and technique? Mandela Sextoys has a detailed guide to choosing and using strap-on harnesses safely and confidently.

Why buy the Lace and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva XS by Strap-On-Me

Want firmer, longer-lasting results without the guesswork? Order the Lace and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva XS from The Cock Ring Store. This harness is genuine and function-tested by our team, with discreet packaging and fast shipping to your door. Cockringshop backs every purchase with honest advice and support. Real fit advice, body-safe materials, and plain-packaged shipping. The Cock Ring Store ships discreetly Australia-wide.

Shipping Information & Policy


Cockringshop.com.au ships with Australia Post. We ship from Sydney.

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 1-6 business days after shipping, but may subject to any postage carrier related delays beyond our control.

Free standard shipping on orders shipped within Australia above $200. For orders below $200 standard shipping within Australia is $12.95 and will be added at checkout.

Orders addressed to P.O box, G.P.O box or Parcel Collect will be handled by Australia Post. Extra time should be allocated for these orders.

Shipping Transit Times (Including Free Shipping)

Shipping time refers to the estimated time that it will take to deliver your order after it’s ready to ship (Please note this does not include time to process your order). Shipping time does not commence after your order is put through but begins the moment your order has been processed and is ready to dispatch via the our freight carrier..

1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)

All in stock orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days for orders received before 12pm. Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next business day.

Orders are typically received 1-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the nearest depot location.

2. Rural Areas (within Australia)

All orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days before 12pm.

Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next Business day.

Packages below 2kg are usually received 3-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the local Australia Post depot.

International Shipping

The price for international shipping is AU$12.95 for orders equal to or below 0.399kg (399grams), and AU$22.95 for orders with a total weight equal to or above 0.4kg (400 grams).

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping. 

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.

Please note in regards to all orders

– These expected delivery dates/times are based on carrier shipping practices, your destination, and the items in your order.

– Expected delivery dates are estimates. Orders can be delayed due to fraud verification or the time of the order being placed. Items that are not regularly stocked cannot be held to the expected delivery dates.

– Orders may be delivered in separate shipments.

– The order cut off times are based on normal Business Hours and exclude weekends and Holidays: Monday – Friday 12 pm

– When your order ships you will receive an email from us with a link to track your order.  If you receive your tracking number before 6 pm (AEST) it may not be updated on the Carrier’s website until that evening.

Due to large amounts of online credit card fraud, all orders are subject to approval by our payment verification department. We will notify you by phone or email should your order be delayed.

Returns Policy


We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.

Returns and exchanges are only available for faulty items, goods not as described, or in some instances, for incorrect sizing.

Due to health and safety regulations, cockringshop.com.au cannot resell any returned or exchanged products.

This policy is in place to prioritise your well-being and ensure that you receive the highest standard of hygiene and quality in all products.

To be eligible for a refund, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging.

You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase. We do not issue refunds for change of mind or incorrect choice.

Under Australian Consumer Law, we are not obliged to accept returns for “incorrect choice” or “change of mind” so please choose your products carefully.

Any freight and insurance costs to return the item to us are at your expense. This includes the liability for any lost freight – send via registered post.

If your return request is accepted, we will provide you with all instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.

Damages and issues

Please inspect your order upon reception and contact us immediately if the item is defective, damaged or if you receive the wrong item, so that we can evaluate the issue and make it right.

Exceptions / non-returnable items

We do not accept returns for any products that have change of mind, damaged products, or for products that have been used or do not have their original packaging.

Please get in touch if you have questions or concerns about your specific item.

Unfortunately, we cannot accept returns on sale items or gift cards.

Refunds

We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved or not. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method within 7 business days.

Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process and post the refund

Frequently Asked Questions

How does the Strap On Me Lace and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva XS secure dildos during penetration?
The universal attachment system features reinforced anchor points that grip dildo bases securely preventing slippage during vigorous thrusting and penetration while maintaining optimal positioning for vaginal or anal stimulation.
What waist sizes can wear the Strap On Me Lace and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva XS comfortably?
Adjustable straps accommodate waist measurements between 64 70 cm through elastane stretch technology ensuring secure fit that adapts to body movement during sexual activity without restricting circulation or comfort.
Why is the Strap On Me Lace and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva XS better for extended sexual sessions?
Ergonomic design distributes weight evenly across wearing points while soft microfiber prevents chafing allowing comfortable wear during prolonged intimate encounters and multiple orgasmic experiences without discomfort.
Which types of dildos work with the Strap On Me Lace and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva XS?
Universal compatibility accommodates various dildo sizes and styles including realistic curved and textured designs enabling personalized penetration experiences for vaginal stimulation G spot targeting or anal play exploration.
Does the Strap On Me Lace and Microfiber Strap On Harness Diva XS maintain hygiene after sexual use?
Machine washable construction allows thorough cleaning after intimate contact and bodily fluid exposure preserving both the elegant lace aesthetics and functional performance for safe repeated sexual encounters.

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