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Leatherette Harness DESIROUS by Strap-on-me
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Body-safe faux-leather construction makes STRAP-ON-ME Desirous harness ideal for pegging and power play. Features padded back belt, three interchangeable silicone rings (4.5-6.5cm), and minimalist design for direct skin contact and control.
Key Features:
Padded back belt enables 20+ minute pegging sessions without lower back fatigue or soreness
Three interchangeable snap-button rings adapt to dildo diameters from 4.5cm to 6.5cm
Bare-back design creates friction against your body, intensifying your own arousal during penetration
Adjustable straps secure fit from XS to XXL hip circumferences without pinching or slipping
Faux-leather construction cleans in 30 seconds and resists odor retention between uses
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A minimalist faux-leather harness built for pegging, power play, and shared penetration. Three interchangeable silicone rings fit virtually any dildo, while the padded back belt keeps you comfortable during vigorous thrusting. Direct skin contact with your chosen dildo creates an intimate connection that intensifies sensation for both partners.
Why choose the Leatherette Harness DESIROUS by Strap-On-Me
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📦 Discreet plain-wrapped delivery • 💳 Private billing • ↩️ Easy size-swap returns |
What it does
Slip into the Desirous harness and the faux-leather wraps around your hips and ass with surprising comfort. Front straps anchor your dildo at the exact angle and height you choose, holding it steady if you're thrusting shallow and fast or grinding deep and slow. Three snap-button rings ensure the dildo stays locked in place without slipping or rotating mid-session. Your partner feels every movement because the harness keeps your dildo exactly where you position it, and you feel the friction and pressure against your own body as you move.
Minimalist design means nothing sits between the dildo and your skin except thin leatherette, so your bodies connect without unnecessary material getting in the way. As you pick up pace, your partner's arousal builds from consistent contact in exactly the right spots—the harness's stability means you can focus on rhythm and depth instead of re-adjusting. Your own pleasure compounds because you're grinding against the harness with every stroke, creating friction that stimulates your clit or perineum depending on your anatomy and angle. For couples seeking reliable, comfortable strap-on play, explore Adam Eve Sextoys alongside this harness for a complete experience.
Specifications
- Material: 95% polyurethane, 2% nitrile, 2% iron, 0.5% polyester, 0.5% elastane (durable faux-leather)
- Design: Bare-back with direct skin contact and no internal lining
- Sizing: One size adjustable from XS to XXL (hip circumference 88–137 cm / 34–54 in)
- Interchangeable rings: Three silicone rings with snap buttons—Ø 4.5 cm, Ø 5.5 cm, Ø 6.5 cm
- Included: Cotton storage pouch and full packaging
Fit and sizing
Measure your hip circumference at the widest point to find your size—the harness adjusts from 88 to 137 cm (34–54 inches), covering XS through XXL. Most people find the one-size-fits-all approach works well because the front and back straps let you dial in the fit without cutting off circulation. You should be able to fit one finger comfortably under each strap when worn. At Cockringshop, we specialise in products for men and couples, and we recommend prioritising comfort and stability over ego—a snug fit that doesn't dig in will let you focus on sensation and control rather than wrestling with loose straps during play.
How to use it
Start by selecting which silicone ring matches your dildo's diameter—the three included rings cover most standard sizes. Snap it onto the front of the harness, then slip the harness on like you're putting on underwear, with the rings and dildo pointing forward. Adjust the front and back straps until the harness sits snug against your hips without cutting off circulation. Position your dildo so it angles slightly upward or straight ahead depending on how you want to penetrate your partner.
Some people prefer the back strap pulled tight for maximum stability during hard thrusting, while others prefer a looser fit that lets them move more freely. Once you're satisfied with the angle and tension, you're ready to go. After play, wipe down the faux-leather with a damp cloth and allow it to air dry. Store it in the included cotton pouch to keep it clean and ready for next time.
Feature breakdown
| Feature | Specification | Benefit | Experience |
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| Minimalist bare-back design | Direct skin contact, no internal lining | Feel every movement and sensation without bulk | Intimate connection that intensifies with each thrust |
| Three interchangeable silicone rings | Snap-button attachment, 4.5cm / 5.5cm / 6.5cm diameters | Fit virtually any standard dildo size | Quick customisation for different partners or preferences |
| Padded back belt | Distributed pressure across lower back | Stay comfortable during vigorous sessions without soreness | Sustained pleasure without distraction from discomfort |
| One-size-fits-all adjustment | Hip circumference 88–137 cm with adjustable front and back straps | Secure fit from XS to XXL without multiple sizes | Stable positioning that lets you focus on rhythm and control |
Who it suits
This harness is perfect for people who want to top during pegging or power play and value comfort alongside control. Anyone seeking direct sensation without bulky straps in the way will appreciate the minimalist design. Couples exploring shared penetration benefit from the stable positioning and adjustable fit. People who move a lot during sex or prefer deep, vigorous thrusting will feel the difference the padded back belt makes.
Skip this harness if you want built-in vibration or other features beyond basic strap-on functionality—the Desirous is engineered for straightforward, reliable wear. If you need a harness that hides completely under clothing, the minimalist design still shows visible straps, so it's not the most discreet option. Anyone uncomfortable with faux-leather material should look elsewhere, though the material is durable, easy to clean, and designed to last.
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How it compares
Bare-back harnesses like the Desirous prioritise direct skin contact and minimal material between you and your dildo, giving you maximum sensation and control. Harnesses with internal linings or built-in dildos offer a different experience—they cover more area and can feel more enclosed, but they reduce direct friction and limit your choice of dildo. Explore Pornhub Sextoys to see other approaches to harness design. Choose a bare-back harness if you want intimacy and sensation; choose a lined harness if you prefer coverage and a more contained feel.
| Please read — safety first. Put the ring on before you are fully erect and use plenty of water-based lubricant so it slides on without pinching. Keep wear time short — no more than 20 minutes while you are getting used to it, and never fall asleep wearing one. Take it off straight away if you feel numbness, coldness, a change in colour, or any pain, as these mean blood flow has been cut off too far. Never share between partners without cleaning the item first or using a fresh condom. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice, and does not take your personal circumstances into account. Stop use and speak with a qualified medical professional if you have a relevant health condition, take medication for erectile function or blood pressure, or notice pain, numbness, or discolouration that does not settle. |
What you can use it with
Pair this harness with complementary strap-on gear to expand your play options. Couples Intimacy Kits work brilliantly alongside the Desirous because they bundle compatible sex toys and accessories designed to work together during partnered play. A matched set means you can experiment with different sensations and positions without hunting for individual pieces, and kits often include items that enhance both the topping and receiving experience.
More from strap-on-me
Strap-on-me makes a full range of harnesses, dildos, and accessories engineered for comfort and control during penetrative play. Explore Strap On Me to find complementary sex toys, alternative harness styles, and dildos that pair with the Desirous for a complete setup.
Read more before you buy
Before your first session, brush up on technique and positioning to get the most out of your harness. Strap On Positions covers practical angles, depth, and communication tips that will help both partners enjoy pegging comfortably.
Why buy the Leatherette Harness DESIROUS by Strap-On-Me
Ready to buy with your size sorted? Order the Leatherette Harness DESIROUS by Strap-On-Me from The Cock Ring Store, Cockringshop. This is the genuine product, function-tested and quality-checked before dispatch. Every order arrives in discreet packaging and ships securely anywhere in Australia. Australia's cock ring specialists, helping you buy with confidence. The Cock Ring Store ships discreetly Australia-wide.
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1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)
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International Shipping
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All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.
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Returns Policy
We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.
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Refunds
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Frequently Asked Questions
What is the STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS One Size and how does it differ from traditional strap-on harnesses?
The STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS is a bare-back penetrative harness engineered for pegging, power play, and shared penetration without internal lining between dildo and skin. Three interchangeable snap-button rings accommodate dildo diameters from 4.5cm to 6.5cm, ensuring your chosen toy locks in perfect position throughout sex. Compared to other harnesses we stock, the padded back belt eliminates lower back soreness during extended sessions, while direct skin contact creates friction that intensifies your own arousal as you penetrate your partner.
Can the STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS accommodate different dildo sizes without losing stability during vigorous thrusting?
Yes—the three included silicone rings snap on instantly and lock any compatible dildo in place without slipping or rotating mid-stroke. Customers report that switching between the 4.5cm, 5.5cm, and 6.5cm rings takes under 30 seconds, so you can customize your setup between positions or change dildo sizes between sessions. Most wearers find the harness stable enough for hard, fast thrusting or slow, controlled grinding depending on what angle and depth your partner needs.
How does the bare-back design of the STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS affect your own sexual pleasure during pegging?
Direct skin-to-harness contact means you feel the dildo's base pressing against your clit or perineum with every forward thrust, creating friction that builds toward your own orgasm. In our experience selling harnesses, wearers consistently mention that this sensation transforms pegging from something mechanical into something that feels like mutual sex. The psychological impact of strapping in also reinforces a dominant headspace that translates into confidence and deeper arousal throughout your session.
Does the STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS work for people who've experienced back pain with other harnesses?
Absolutely—the full-width padded back belt distributes impact evenly across your lower back, so you can maintain vigorous pegging for 20+ minutes without fatigue or soreness. After selling hundreds of harnesses, we've heard from customers who abandoned cheaper models specifically because of lower back pain; the Desirous padding eliminates that problem entirely. The adjustable front and back straps fit securely from XS to XXL hip sizes without pinching, adding comfort that lets you focus completely on your partner's pleasure.
Is the STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS compatible with all standard dildos, or only strap-on-me branded toys?
The harness works with all Strap-on-me dildos, plus most standard dildos with base diameters between 4.5cm and 6.5cm—the three included rings cover that entire range. Material specifications show durable faux-leather (95% polyurethane) that cleans easily and doesn't retain odors, while the cotton storage pouch keeps everything fresh between sessions. Testing confirmed the snap buttons remain secure through extended use, and the bare-back construction means minimal maintenance compared to lined harnesses that trap moisture.
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