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Trust Me Adjustable Spreader Bar & Cuffs by Love Honey - Spreaders and Hangers
Trust Me Adjustable Spreader Bar & Cuffs by Love Honey - Spreaders and Hangers
Trust Me Adjustable Spreader Bar & Cuffs by Love Honey - Spreaders and Hangers

Trust Me Adjustable Spreader Bar & Cuffs by Love Honey

$149.99
$149.99

Trust Me Adjustable Spreader Bar & Cuffs unites reinforced metal construction with customizable positioning controls, featuring premium faux leather overlay for extended wear resistance. The adjustable width mechanism provides personalized restraint levels, ensuring durable components maintain structural integrity throughout intensive bondage sessions.

Key Features:

Metal spreader bar with adjustable width restrains legs in open position for complete access to genitals during intimate play sessions and erotic exploration.

Fur lined ankle cuffs provide comfortable restraint while maintaining secure bondage positioning for extended intimate sessions without causing discomfort or circulation issues.

Includes blindfold to heighten sensory deprivation during penetration and stimulation while partner remains restrained in vulnerable spread eagle position for dominance play.

Detachable components allow cuffs to be used separately with other bondage equipment while spreader bar disassembles for discrete storage between sessions.

Creates helpless exposure perfect for oral stimulation clitoral massage anal play and penetration while restrained partner experiences heightened arousal through vulnerability.

Vendor: Love Honey
SKU: BON-106-NOATTRIBUTES-WAREHOUSE-NONE-35055
Availability: Out Of Stock
Product type: Spreaders and Hangers
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An adjustable metal spreader bar with detachable cuffs for couples who want reliable bondage equipment that adapts to their needs. Reinforced steel construction and customizable width positioning deliver durable restraint control for extended sessions.

Why choose the Trust Me Adjustable Spreader Bar & Cuffs by
  • Build quality: Heavy-duty steel resists bending under sustained force
  • Adjustable width: 24–40 inch range lets you dial in restraint intensity
  • Faux leather overlay: Protects against scratches and wear over time
  • Detachable cuffs: Fur-lined ankle cuffs with secure buckles for comfort
  • Easy assembly: Pin mechanism for quick setup and compact storage
  • Includes blindfold: Adds sensory deprivation play to your sessions
  • Long-term durability: Backed by Love Honey's quality guarantee
📦 Discreet plain-wrapped delivery  •  💳 Private billing  •  ↩️ Easy size-swap returns

What it does

A reinforced metal spreader bar holds your partner's ankles apart at a width you control. Slide the adjustment pins to open or close the bar from 24 to 40 inches—gentle spread or maximum exposure, whatever suits your scene. Detachable fur-lined cuffs secure around each ankle with buckle closures, and a matching blindfold blocks sight to heighten other sensations.

During play, the heavy-duty steel core resists bending or flexing under force, so restraint stays firm and predictable. Premium faux leather protects the metal from scratches and wear, keeping the bar intact through repeated sessions. Testicle Hangers work alongside spreader bars for partners who enjoy combined restraint. Adjustable width means you can shift intensity mid-session without breaking rhythm—tighten for maximum vulnerability or ease off based on your partner's comfort and your control preferences.

Specifications

  • Core construction: Reinforced metal with premium faux leather overlay
  • Adjustable width range: 24–40 inches
  • Ankle cuffs: Fur-lined with secure buckle closures, detachable
  • Included accessories: Matching blindfold for sensory deprivation
  • Storage: Disassembles for compact storage and maintenance

Fit and sizing

Width range spans 24 to 40 inches, which fits most body frames when adjusted properly. Measure between your partner's ankles while standing with legs comfortably apart to estimate the spread you'll use most often—most people fall within this range. Start at a narrower setting and work outward if you're new to spreader bars; comfort matters more than maximum spread. Cockringshop specialise in products for men and couples, and our team can help you pick the right fit if you're unsure. Snug cuffs prevent slipping, but leave room for circulation—you should fit a finger between cuff and skin.

How to use it

Assemble the spreader bar sections and adjust to your desired width using the pin mechanism. Secure each ankle cuff snugly but not so tight that circulation suffers. If you're combining this with other sex toys or accessories, pre-lubing can save discomfort from rubbing during active movement.

Begin with moderate spreading to gauge how your partner responds, then adjust based on your control preferences and their feedback. During the session, the durable construction handles vigorous movement without bending. After play, wipe down the metal and leather with a damp cloth, then air-dry. Store disassembled in a cool, dry place to preserve the faux leather overlay and metal finish.

Feature breakdown

Feature Specification Benefit Experience
Reinforced Metal Core Heavy-duty steel construction Reliable restraint integrity under force Confidence in equipment safety during play
Adjustable Width 24–40 inch range Customizable vulnerability and restraint intensity Complete positioning authority throughout session
Detachable Cuffs Fur-lined with secure buckles Comfortable extended wear and versatile restraint Flexible options for different scenes and partners
Premium Overlay Faux leather protection Enhanced durability and scratch resistance Long-term investment value and consistent appearance

Who it suits

Couples seeking reliable bondage equipment that combines durability with control will love the Trust Me spreader bar. Works for beginners exploring restraint for the first time and advanced practitioners who demand robust construction and precise positioning authority. Adjustable width accommodates different body frames and experience levels, so both partners feel secure and in control.

Skip this if you want something portable or lightweight—the reinforced metal core is heavy by design. Also not ideal if your partner has mobility issues or ankle sensitivity that makes cuff wear uncomfortable. For those concerns, discuss alternatives with our team or adjust session length and cuff padding to suit your needs.

Tested and quality-checked

Every new line we stock is hands-on tested before it ever goes live — we power it up, run it through its functions, and check it for safety and for how it actually performs. Overseas orders get a second function-test right before they ship, so a dead motor never reaches your door. Nothing is used for its intended purpose; it is checked, inspected, and re-boxed. What that means for you is simple: the unit you open is one we already know works. See how we test every product →

How it compares

Spreader bars like this one hold legs apart with rigid metal, creating fixed or adjustable restraint depending on the design. E Stim Cock Plugs offer a different kind of sensation play altogether. Metal spreaders prioritize durability and precise positioning control; silicone alternatives flex slightly and weigh less. Choose metal if you want robust long-term equipment and firm, predictable restraint; choose silicone if portability and flex matter more to you.

Please read — safety first. Put the ring on before you are fully erect and use plenty of water-based lubricant so it slides on without pinching. Keep wear time short — no more than 20 minutes while you are getting used to it, and never fall asleep wearing one. Take it off straight away if you feel numbness, coldness, a change in colour, or any pain, as these mean blood flow has been cut off too far. Never share between partners without cleaning the item first or using a fresh condom. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice, and does not take your personal circumstances into account. Stop use and speak with a qualified medical professional if you have a relevant health condition, take medication for erectile function or blood pressure, or notice pain, numbness, or discolouration that does not settle.

What you can use it with

Pair the spreader bar with Couples Intimacy Kits to expand your bondage and sensation play in one session. Restraint gear works well alongside kits designed for couples because both partners get roles—one controlling position and sensation, the other experiencing vulnerability and heightened sensation. Combined, they create more immersive scenes with layered control and pleasure.

More from Love Honey

Love Honey builds durable restraint equipment with customizable features for couples and serious bondage enthusiasts. Browse the full Love Honey range to find other spreaders, hangers, cuffs, and bondage essentials that match the same build quality and design philosophy.

Read more before you buy

New to bondage or want to build your skills? Our partners at Adultsmart offer solid guides to technique and safety. Bdsm Spanking Tools covers foundational concepts worth reading before your first session.

Why buy the Trust Me Adjustable Spreader Bar & Cuffs by Love Honey

Keen to get harder and last longer tonight? Order the Trust Me Adjustable Spreader Bar & Cuffs from The Cock Ring Store today. Every product is genuine, function-tested, and quality-checked before dispatch. Cockringshop ships in discreet packaging so your order arrives private and secure. Real fit advice, body-safe materials, and plain-packaged shipping. The Cock Ring Store ships discreetly Australia-wide.

Shipping Information & Policy


Cockringshop.com.au ships with Australia Post. We ship from Sydney.

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 1-6 business days after shipping, but may subject to any postage carrier related delays beyond our control.

Free standard shipping on orders shipped within Australia above $200. For orders below $200 standard shipping within Australia is $12.95 and will be added at checkout.

Orders addressed to P.O box, G.P.O box or Parcel Collect will be handled by Australia Post. Extra time should be allocated for these orders.

Shipping Transit Times (Including Free Shipping)

Shipping time refers to the estimated time that it will take to deliver your order after it’s ready to ship (Please note this does not include time to process your order). Shipping time does not commence after your order is put through but begins the moment your order has been processed and is ready to dispatch via the our freight carrier..

1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)

All in stock orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days for orders received before 12pm. Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next business day.

Orders are typically received 1-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the nearest depot location.

2. Rural Areas (within Australia)

All orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days before 12pm.

Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next Business day.

Packages below 2kg are usually received 3-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the local Australia Post depot.

International Shipping

The price for international shipping is AU$12.95 for orders equal to or below 0.399kg (399grams), and AU$22.95 for orders with a total weight equal to or above 0.4kg (400 grams).

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping. 

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.

Please note in regards to all orders

– These expected delivery dates/times are based on carrier shipping practices, your destination, and the items in your order.

– Expected delivery dates are estimates. Orders can be delayed due to fraud verification or the time of the order being placed. Items that are not regularly stocked cannot be held to the expected delivery dates.

– Orders may be delivered in separate shipments.

– The order cut off times are based on normal Business Hours and exclude weekends and Holidays: Monday – Friday 12 pm

– When your order ships you will receive an email from us with a link to track your order.  If you receive your tracking number before 6 pm (AEST) it may not be updated on the Carrier’s website until that evening.

Due to large amounts of online credit card fraud, all orders are subject to approval by our payment verification department. We will notify you by phone or email should your order be delayed.

Returns Policy


We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.

Returns and exchanges are only available for faulty items, goods not as described, or in some instances, for incorrect sizing.

Due to health and safety regulations, cockringshop.com.au cannot resell any returned or exchanged products.

This policy is in place to prioritise your well-being and ensure that you receive the highest standard of hygiene and quality in all products.

To be eligible for a refund, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging.

You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase. We do not issue refunds for change of mind or incorrect choice.

Under Australian Consumer Law, we are not obliged to accept returns for “incorrect choice” or “change of mind” so please choose your products carefully.

Any freight and insurance costs to return the item to us are at your expense. This includes the liability for any lost freight – send via registered post.

If your return request is accepted, we will provide you with all instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.

Damages and issues

Please inspect your order upon reception and contact us immediately if the item is defective, damaged or if you receive the wrong item, so that we can evaluate the issue and make it right.

Exceptions / non-returnable items

We do not accept returns for any products that have change of mind, damaged products, or for products that have been used or do not have their original packaging.

Please get in touch if you have questions or concerns about your specific item.

Unfortunately, we cannot accept returns on sale items or gift cards.

Refunds

We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved or not. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method within 7 business days.

Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process and post the refund

Frequently Asked Questions

How does the Trust Me Adjustable Spreader Bar & Cuffs enhance intimate access during bondage play?
The adjustable metal bar forces legs into wide open positioning that provides unrestricted access to genitals and anus for oral stimulation penetration and intimate touching during restraint play.
Why is the Trust Me Adjustable Spreader Bar & Cuffs effective for power dynamic scenarios?
Forced leg positioning creates complete vulnerability and helplessness while the restrained partner cannot close their legs or resist intimate contact making dominance scenarios more intense.
What sensations does the Trust Me Adjustable Spreader Bar & Cuffs create during use?
It generates intense arousal through enforced exposure while the included blindfold heightens touch sensitivity making every caress penetration and stimulation feel more intense and overwhelming.
Which features of the Trust Me Adjustable Spreader Bar & Cuffs maximize comfort during extended sessions?
Fur lined ankle cuffs prevent chafing and discomfort while the adjustable bar width allows customization of the spread intensity to match comfort levels during prolonged restraint.
Does the Trust Me Adjustable Spreader Bar & Cuffs work for different body types and positions?
Adjustable width accommodation ranges from gentle spreading to maximum exposure while detachable cuffs fit various ankle sizes making it suitable for diverse users and positioning preferences.

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