Love Rider Butterfly Lover by California Exotics

Love Rider Butterfly Lover is a strap-on harness that delivers pleasure to both partners during penetrative play. Its flexible butterfly stimulator wraps around your clitoris while the silicone shaft penetrates your partner, ensuring mutual orgasm and satisfaction through thoughtful dual-action design.

What it does

Love Rider Butterfly Lover combines a firm 6-inch silicone shaft with a flexible butterfly-shaped stimulator that nestles around your clitoris. As you thrust into your partner, the silicone wings massage your sensitive tissue, building arousal with each movement. Your partner enjoys smooth, comfortable penetration while you experience constant clitoral pressure that syncs with the rhythm you control. Sensation deepens with each thrust, creating waves of warmth across your pelvis that build naturally toward orgasm.

Medical-grade silicone offers the right balance of smoothness and grip, making entry easy for your partner while the stimulator responds to your body's natural motion. Position changes don't break contact—the curved design keeps the butterfly against your clit regardless of angle or depth. Adam Eve Sextoys also stock dual-action harnesses if you want to compare other styles. Arousal builds deep inside as your partner responds to the penetration, and you feel their mounting excitement amplified by the steady pressure against your sensitive flesh.

Specifications

• Insertable length: 6 inches with 1.5 inch diameter
• Material: Medical-grade silicone, hypoallergenic
• Harness fit: Adjustable elastic straps, 28–48 inch waist range
• Base: Strong suction cup for hands-free mounting on smooth surfaces
• Cleaning: Warm water and sex toy-safe cleaners

Fit and sizing

Measure your waist where the harness will sit—usually at hip level—to ensure the adjustable elastic straps fit comfortably without pinching or sliding. A 6-inch shaft suits most body types without overwhelming smaller partners, though those seeking more substantial length may want to explore other options. Cockringshop specialises in products for men and couples, so browse our full range if you're unsure about sizing. Comfort and secure positioning matter far more than ego: a harness that stays put and feels good will always outperform one that's too ambitious. Try it on before use and adjust the straps so the butterfly stimulator sits snugly against your clitoris without bunching the silicone.

How to use it

Adjust the elastic harness around your hips so the butterfly stimulator sits directly against your clitoris, with the flexible wings cradling your sensitive areas without pinching. Ensure the shaft hangs at a comfortable angle for your partner's entry. Apply water-based lubricant generously to both the shaft and your partner's entry point to allow smooth penetration and reduce friction.

Start with slow, controlled movements to find the angle that maximises contact between the butterfly and your clitoris. As arousal builds, increase your rhythm while maintaining steady pressure against your sensitive flesh. Your partner's excitement will mount alongside yours as the stimulator responds to your thrusting motion. Afterward, rinse the shaft and harness with warm water and sex toy-safe cleaner, then air dry before storage.

Feature breakdown

Who it suits

Couples seeking mutual satisfaction during strap-on play will appreciate how this harness prioritises both partners' pleasure equally. Beginners love the comfortable, straightforward harness system that stays secure without complicated adjustments, while experienced users value the precise clitoral targeting that many standard strap-ons lack. If you're new to strap-on play, the 6-inch length feels less overwhelming than larger alternatives, and the flexible butterfly design makes positioning intuitive.

Skip this if you're after a much larger shaft—the 1.5-inch diameter and 6-inch length suit most couples but won't satisfy those seeking extreme girth or depth. If you prefer clitoral stimulation to remain separate from penetrative play, or if you want a harness that focuses entirely on your partner's sensation, a standard strap-on without a built-in stimulator may suit you better.

How it compares

Standard strap-ons focus solely on penetrating your partner, leaving the wearer without direct clitoral contact during play. Love Rider Butterfly Lover flips that dynamic by adding a flexible butterfly stimulator that delivers constant sensation to your clitoris as you thrust. Strap On Me offers harnesses with different designs and features if you want to compare approaches. The curved, flexible wings of this model maintain contact across position changes, whereas many basic strap-ons require you to choose between your partner's comfort and your own stimulation.

What you can use it with

Pair Love Rider Butterfly Lover with Anal Sex Toys if both partners enjoy combined penetration during play. Anal stimulation alongside vaginal or strap-on penetration intensifies sensation for both of you, deepening arousal and creating more complex pleasure. The flexibility of the silicone harness makes it comfortable to wear during dual-penetration sessions, and the butterfly stimulator continues delivering clitoral contact while your partner experiences layered sensation.

More from California Exotics

California Exotics specialises in innovative sex toys designed to enhance pleasure between partners. California Exotics offers a full range of harnesses, vibrators, and couples' sex toys that prioritise comfort and dual satisfaction. Browse the brand's complete collection to find other designs that suit your preferences.

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