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Passion Anal Desensitising Lubricant w/ Lidocane

$74.99
$74.99

XR Brands Anal Desensitising Gel provides gentle numbing relief for comfortable anal exploration. This 250ml water-based formula reduces discomfort while maintaining sensitivity for pleasure. Perfect for beginners or anyone seeking smoother anal play with lasting lubrication and easy cleanup.

Key Features:

Water based anal desensitising lubricant provides mild numbing effect for comfortable anal penetration while maintaining pleasurable sensations during intimate play sessions with partners or sex toys.

Long lasting formula ensures sustained lubrication throughout extended anal play without frequent reapplication allowing uninterrupted focus on arousal and orgasm during penetration with fingers penis or butt plugs.

Smooth slick texture creates effortless glide for anal stimulation while desensitising properties relax nerve endings around the anus to reduce discomfort during initial penetration and deeper exploration.

Odorless composition maintains focus on physical sensations during anal masturbation or partnered play without distracting scents enhancing the natural experience of intimate touching and sexual arousal.

Easy cleanup water based formula leaves no sticky residue after anal play sessions washing away cleanly from skin and sex toys while remaining compatible with all condom materials.

Vendor: XR Brands
SKU: WD-032-NOATTRIBUTES-SHOP-NONE-69110
Availability: In stock
Product type: Water Based Lubes
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Anal Desensitising Gel by XR Brands is a water-based numbing lubricant designed to reduce initial discomfort during anal play. It combines gentle topical numbing with premium lubrication, making it ideal for nervous beginners, returning players, and anyone with sensitive nerve endings seeking a calmer entry.

Why choose the Anal Desensitising Gel by XR Brands
  • Numbing effect: Reduces initial sting without deadening sensation completely
  • Safety and feedback: Maintains enough feeling so your body can signal discomfort
  • Water-based formula: Safe with condoms and all sex toys
  • Long-lasting glide: Stays slippery throughout extended sessions
  • Odorless gel: Clear, unscented formula keeps focus on physical sensation
  • Easy cleanup: Rinses clean with water, leaves no sticky residue
  • Generous size: 250ml bottle provides extended use
📦 Discreet plain-wrapped delivery  •  💳 Private billing  •  ↩️ Easy size-swap returns

What it does

Once applied, this gel creates a subtle numbing effect around the anus within 2–3 minutes. A mild topical numbing agent temporarily reduces sharp sensations without completely deadening the area. You'll still feel pressure, movement and arousal—just with less initial sting or discomfort when entry begins. Your body remains responsive enough to signal if something feels wrong, while the edge gets taken off those first moments.

During longer sessions, the slick texture provides smooth glide for fingers, adult toys or penetration while reducing friction that causes irritation. Unlike harsh numbing products that leave you completely numb, this formula maintains enough sensation to stay safe and in control. For a wider choice of water-based options, check out Id Lubes and other formulas designed for different sensations and needs.

Specifications

  • Volume: 250ml
  • Base: Water-based formula
  • Active ingredient: Mild topical numbing agent
  • Texture: Clear, odorless gel
  • Compatibility: Condom and sex toy safe
  • Cleanup: Rinses clean with water, no sticky residue

Choosing and using it

This gel works best when applied 3–5 minutes before play begins. Start with a small amount—less than you think you need—and gently massage it into the area around the anus. Wait for the subtle numbing sensation to kick in; you'll notice the area feels slightly cooler and less sensitive to touch. Reapply during longer sessions as needed, but avoid overuse, as too much numbing removes important feedback your body provides. If you need more glide during extended play, use additional regular lube alongside this gel. At Cockringshop, we specialise in products for men and couples seeking comfort and control during intimate moments, and this desensitising gel pairs well with a thoughtful approach to anal exploration.

How to use it

Apply a small amount directly to the anus and surrounding area, then gently massage it in. Give it 2–3 minutes to work before beginning play. You'll notice a subtle cooling sensation and reduced sensitivity to touch. Start slowly during entry; your body will signal if anything feels wrong because the numbing is mild, not total.

Reapply as needed during longer sessions, but don't overdo it—excessive numbing removes the protective feedback your body needs. If additional lubrication is required, apply regular water-based lube on top of this gel; the desensitising effect will continue while the extra glide keeps things smooth. Cleanup is simple: rinse thoroughly with water when finished.

Feature breakdown

Feature Specification Benefit Experience
Mild desensitising Topical numbing agent Reduces initial discomfort Calmer, more relaxed entry
Water-based formula Non-oil composition Safe with condoms and sex toys Versatile use without worry
Long-lasting glide Extended lubrication Sustained smoothness Fewer interruptions to reapply
Odorless gel No artificial fragrances Focus stays on physical sensations Nothing distracts from arousal

Who it suits

This gel is perfect for anal play newcomers who tense up from anticipating discomfort, creating a cycle of tightness and pain. It's also ideal for anyone returning to anal play after a break, or those with particularly sensitive nerve endings around the anus. Couples where size differences make initial entry challenging will appreciate the gentler introduction this provides, allowing both partners to relax and focus on pleasure rather than pain.

Skip this product if you prefer feeling every sensation at full intensity, or if you have known allergies to topical numbing agents. Experienced players who've mastered relaxation techniques might find this unnecessary for their needs. Anyone with hemorrhoids or anal injuries should consult a doctor before using numbing products, as these conditions require professional medical guidance.

Tested and quality-checked

Every new line we stock is inspected by hand before it goes live — we check the build, the finish, and the materials, and we confirm it is safe and fit for how it will be used. Nothing is used for its intended purpose; it is examined, checked, and re-boxed. What that means for you is simple: you receive a piece we have already vetted, not a guess off a supplier's pallet. See how we test every product →

How it compares

Most Water Based Lubricant products focus purely on glide and slip without any numbing effect. This desensitising gel takes a different approach: it combines lubrication with a mild topical numbing agent to reduce initial discomfort during entry. Standard lubes work well for those already comfortable with anal play or seeking maximum sensation, while this gel suits people managing nervousness, sensitivity or returning after a break. Both serve water-based lubes' core strength—condom and sex toy compatibility—but they target different comfort needs during anal exploration.

Please read — safety first. Put the ring on before you are fully erect and use plenty of water-based lubricant so it slides on without pinching. Keep wear time short — no more than 20 minutes while you are getting used to it, and never fall asleep wearing one. Take it off straight away if you feel numbness, coldness, a change in colour, or any pain, as these mean blood flow has been cut off too far. Never share between partners without cleaning the item first or using a fresh condom. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice, and does not take your personal circumstances into account. Stop use and speak with a qualified medical professional if you have a relevant health condition, take medication for erectile function or blood pressure, or notice pain, numbness, or discolouration that does not settle.

What you can use it with

Pair this desensitising gel with Couples Intimacy Kits to create a complete experience designed for both partners. These kits often include complementary items that work together during intimate play, allowing couples to explore anal pleasure in a coordinated, communicative way. The numbing gel takes the edge off nervousness, while a curated kit approach helps both of you feel prepared, comfortable and connected throughout the experience.

More from XR Brands

XR Brands specialises in accessible adult products that solve real sexual challenges. Their range covers lubrication, comfort and sensation across different play styles and experience levels. Browse the full Xr Brands collection to find other solutions tailored to your needs.

Read more before you buy

Preparation is key to confident anal play. For practical guidance on hygiene and setup, check out the blog post on Water Bottle Douching Techniques over on the Adultsmart blog, which covers thorough preparation methods.

Why buy the Anal Desensitising Gel by XR Brands

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Shipping Information & Policy


Cockringshop.com.au ships with Australia Post. We ship from Sydney.

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 1-6 business days after shipping, but may subject to any postage carrier related delays beyond our control.

Free standard shipping on orders shipped within Australia above $200. For orders below $200 standard shipping within Australia is $12.95 and will be added at checkout.

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1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)

All in stock orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days for orders received before 12pm. Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next business day.

Orders are typically received 1-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the nearest depot location.

2. Rural Areas (within Australia)

All orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days before 12pm.

Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next Business day.

Packages below 2kg are usually received 3-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the local Australia Post depot.

International Shipping

The price for international shipping is AU$12.95 for orders equal to or below 0.399kg (399grams), and AU$22.95 for orders with a total weight equal to or above 0.4kg (400 grams).

All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping. 

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.

Please note in regards to all orders

– These expected delivery dates/times are based on carrier shipping practices, your destination, and the items in your order.

– Expected delivery dates are estimates. Orders can be delayed due to fraud verification or the time of the order being placed. Items that are not regularly stocked cannot be held to the expected delivery dates.

– Orders may be delivered in separate shipments.

– The order cut off times are based on normal Business Hours and exclude weekends and Holidays: Monday – Friday 12 pm

– When your order ships you will receive an email from us with a link to track your order.  If you receive your tracking number before 6 pm (AEST) it may not be updated on the Carrier’s website until that evening.

Due to large amounts of online credit card fraud, all orders are subject to approval by our payment verification department. We will notify you by phone or email should your order be delayed.

Returns Policy


We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.

Returns and exchanges are only available for faulty items, goods not as described, or in some instances, for incorrect sizing.

Due to health and safety regulations, cockringshop.com.au cannot resell any returned or exchanged products.

This policy is in place to prioritise your well-being and ensure that you receive the highest standard of hygiene and quality in all products.

To be eligible for a refund, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging.

You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase. We do not issue refunds for change of mind or incorrect choice.

Under Australian Consumer Law, we are not obliged to accept returns for “incorrect choice” or “change of mind” so please choose your products carefully.

Any freight and insurance costs to return the item to us are at your expense. This includes the liability for any lost freight – send via registered post.

If your return request is accepted, we will provide you with all instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.

Damages and issues

Please inspect your order upon reception and contact us immediately if the item is defective, damaged or if you receive the wrong item, so that we can evaluate the issue and make it right.

Exceptions / non-returnable items

We do not accept returns for any products that have change of mind, damaged products, or for products that have been used or do not have their original packaging.

Please get in touch if you have questions or concerns about your specific item.

Unfortunately, we cannot accept returns on sale items or gift cards.

Refunds

We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved or not. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method within 7 business days.

Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process and post the refund

Frequently Asked Questions

How does the XR Brands Anal Desensitising Gel Unmatched Satisfaction enhance comfort during anal penetration?
The mild desensitising formula works by relaxing sensitive nerve endings around the anus reducing initial discomfort while preserving pleasurable sensations during penetration with fingers penis or anal sex toys.
What makes the XR Brands Anal Desensitising Gel Unmatched Satisfaction effective for extended anal play sessions?
Long lasting water based formula maintains consistent lubrication throughout prolonged anal stimulation without frequent reapplication allowing continuous focus on arousal and orgasm during intimate exploration with partners or solo masturbation.
Why is the XR Brands Anal Desensitising Gel Unmatched Satisfaction better for anal exploration than regular lubricants?
Specially formulated desensitising properties specifically target anal sensitivity concerns while providing superior glide for comfortable penetration making it ideal for both beginners and experienced users exploring anal stimulation.
When should the XR Brands Anal Desensitising Gel Unmatched Satisfaction be applied for optimal anal stimulation results?
Apply generously before anal penetration begins allowing the desensitising effect to take hold while the slick formula provides immediate lubrication for comfortable insertion of fingers penis or butt plugs.
Does the XR Brands Anal Desensitising Gel Unmatched Satisfaction work effectively with anal sex toys and condoms?
Water based composition ensures complete compatibility with all anal sex toy materials and condom types while delivering consistent lubrication and desensitising effects during penetration and stimulation activities.

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